everybody takes this too far, couples argue differently for all you know this is just a playful lovers spat, anybody in a loving relationship knows it's not always sugar and daisies. it's just an FML it's not a "kill me ******* now my life is so miserable"

EW! She sounds incredibly entitled. I hope she doesn't raise your child to be spoiled.

What are you creating? LIFE. You're just taking the passive route. Takes two to make one. And don't forget the food baby. He wants to live too!

She wouldn't have a life to create without you. I hate how some people discount the work fathers put into raising children.

sorry, but she's got you there my friend!

But you're making a breech baby!

OP, it sounds like your wife may be very hormonal (and possibly having to use the bathroom?). It is not easy for the woman's body to go through the changes and be sane all the time. It can be hard. The stress can also get to both of them. What was the argument about? My husband and I fight over the dishes. He refuses to do household chores (until I was very pregnant with our second one and mandated to bed rest). Maybe she is asking for help and emotional support? There is more going on then she is probably letting on. She is carrying a life and growing it, but it still takes two to create life no matter which way it happened.

What's really messed up is, OP is female. What if her wife was literally saying "You're infertile, you would never understand". FYL OP, that's cold. I might be looking at it from the wrong side, because we don't have enough details, but we don't know why her wife is the one carrying the baby.

She's got you there....lol

Firstly, just because one of two WOMEN in a relationship is bearing the child doesn't mean the other one is infertile. I have an agreement with my fiancé that I will be carrying the first child. Secondly, wow, this turned in to such a big sexism discussion and well, for one on computer who sees the gender icon you seem kind of... stupid and gender assuming. I do not have a problem seeing this scenario happening in a relationship with to ladies. If the gender icon is right, I hope you understand how stupid it seems when you are discussing a) how SHE provided with sperm, there's a very little chance that she did (if you don't understand then read up on transsexualism) b) that at least did she (when you were assuming that she was a man) PROVIDE. Go standing in the corner and think of what stupid gender roles you just assumed on this FML. Shame.