By Noname - 18/03/2009 01:24 - United States

Today, while I was out to eat, I was approached by the restaurant manager. He told me that while he respected my personal choices, his patrons didn't feel comfortable with someone who used to be a man using the women's restroom. He thought I was a transsexual. I am a naturally-born female. FML
I agree, your life sucks 384 152
You deserved it 36 188

Same thing different taste

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I don't see why people would be uncomfortable seeing someone using the restroom, I mean the woman's washroom have stalls... unless you were standing while peeing... or doing perverted shit by peeking on someone then yea. I'm a female and I walk into the guy's if the girl's is locked. Seriously, transsexual or not, if you have to go you have to go. But then again a guy wouldn't be comfortable seeing a female in their washroom. I feel for you but I can't help but laugh at this situation.

Most transgendered people I know look *fantastic*, you'd be hard pressed to tell. That aside, what the manager did was also against the law (at least in the US). Transgendered people who have undergone sexual reassignment surgery are then LEGALLY the gender they transitioned to. In other words, if you are a transgendered person born a man who transitions to a woman and has surgery, you can have your birth certificate altered. You can also now legally marry a woman in any state in the United States, because you ARE a woman. And all THAT aside, I wouldn't care if someone was a transvestite, if you're dressed as a woman feel free to use the bathroom. Unless the person (ANY PERSON) is doing something other than appropriately using the facility...who cares. :P What a bigot that manager was!

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Dont worry girly they probably were gay and couldn't tell A man from a woman

freakshow13 0

I always just use the mend restroom. There's always too many girls waiting for the ladies room. But of course I have someone stand guard outside the door. :) hope your day gets better. :) or got better.

You should've made a big scene about it in the restaurant, tell everyone the truth, and publicly humiliate him for being an ignorant A-hole!

hateevryone 14

thats so cruel. and insulting

Geier08 0

wow :/ that must of hurt. i would of said "well i am a woman for your information!" i would never go back there even if you were you should be aloud to thats messed!

That's pretty ridiculous... I mean does it even matter? Even if you WERE a guy dressed as a girl I'm pretty sure that you would make the people in the guy's bathroom way more uncomfortable...

That's pretty ridiculous... I mean does it even matter? Even if you WERE a guy dressed as a girl I'm pretty sure that you would make the people in the guy's bathroom way more uncomfortable...

Well don't dress and be such a tomboy !!!! Your a lady act like one !!!

ishiloh 5

I think the thing that bothers me most about this FML is the fact that the manager said "your personal choice"... it is NOT a choice to be transgendered.