By michelle - 15/11/2015 15:21 - Netherlands - Amsterdam

Today, while my husband was at work, he missed our son saying his first word ("Dada"), taking his first steps and smashing the widescreen TV with a well-aimed teddy bear. Care to guess which of these three things made my husband cry. FML
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Same thing different taste

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is his teddy bear made of solid brick?

How does a small child smash a TV with a teddy bear

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Is dada really a word? I thought it's just typical meaningless baby babbling. What does it mean?

It's something kids sometimes call their dad. Like calling your mom "mama" or your grandmother "nana." Kids often grow out of using mama/dada, and I don't think they're dictionary official words, but they're still widely recognized nicknames for mom and dad.

It's not. It is indeed baby babbling, and even though it ended up being used for 'daddy', it is not 'officially' allowed to be recognized as its first word. So technically the husband didn't miss it.

AkBunny907 18

Since when is there an official anything for baby words? I think you may find it difficult to tell someone their child isn't really speaking words because you decided it's not "official".

itwasntme14 19

I agree with #14 my daughter said mama at around 8 months and didn't say anything else until she was 16 months old. Dada and mama are some of the first sounds any child will make. This being said no one besides op was there for the child saying dada, and it is her child so her say is really all that matters

Mama is an actual word, daddy is an actual word. I'm not a native speaker so I was just wondering but if I understand correctly dada is not a word but it is recognized as baby talk. It wasn't meant to be criticism, just a general question about the native speakers perception on the matter.. Be kind people..

itwasntme14 19

They are actual words but usually babies "say" them while crying or babbling. To me first words are used in context a baby saying "mama" while pointing at their mother for instance. But once again that's just me.

no, apparently OP is Dutch. And in Holland we call dad "papa". Dada is certainly not a word. But, nonetheless, congrats at the big milestones with your baby, with the words and the steps, and the throwing if you wish him to be a basketball player ;-)

writergirl1029 17

I'm finding it a bit implausible that your son took his first steps and said his first words on the same day. Regardless, I'd be annoyed if my kid broke a super expensive item. Your husband will probably regret missing those moments later, sadly.

I'm not really that surprised, most people would be upset if something they'd worked hard for got destroyed like that.

OMG people! Stop over-anilyzing. It's not important how the TV got smashed, that's not the point of the post.

The reason the guy was crying is because the ******* TV got smashed. You moron.

TAntobella 14

I understand him, that tv was probably the only thing keeping him sane during these early times of parenthood..

Sorry your husband missed those moments. Just tell him that material items could be replaced..

Mathalamus 24

Impressive. He smashed a multi thousand dollar tv with a 5 dollar stuffed bear. Pretty sure he is crying over the expensive TV. I would..,

Could have been a small $150 TV and still been widescreen.

A toddler smashed a TV? Guess your husband cried because he realized he had sired a monster.