By ohmylordy - 29/10/2010 05:48 - United States

Spicy
Today, while talking with my girlfriend about dating, I learned that she has had more girlfriends than I have. FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 361
You deserved it 6 664

Same thing different taste

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I'm pretty sure most guys wouldn't consider this an FML.

shortyshort21 0

maybe you guys had the same girlfriend...

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Dude. Your g/f is bi. Thats epic win - You fail. I can't even say YDI because you DON'T deserve a hot bi chick for a g/f. Any guy who says 'it's not their fantasy' is full of sh!t. They only say that because they want to look like 'one of the good guys' in front of all the females or they aren't confident enough to handle two women at once. News flash - It IS every guys fantasy. Some guys might wish they had bigger man-bits or a better body to accomplish this feat, but they still wish they could have it. Chicks are like Voltron. The more you hook up with the better it gets. For all of the females which are undoubtedly going to be spewing hate at me for this statement, at least take into consideration that I am speaking of pure unleashed hormone-driven lust here. Good relationships are based on more then that obviously.

Okay, so apparently all guys have the same mindset as you and they're all total douchebags? *scribbles notes* Good to know. Moron.

Men want physical fulfillment, women want emotional fulfillment. Deal with it.

There is a reply button you should have clicked. No, that's not the case at all. Some women prefer the physical fulfillment while some men prefer the emotional fulfillment, rendering neither abnormal. Some men and some women sometimes want BOTH types of fulfillment; so it's not a case of men want this 100% of the time and women want this 100% of the time.

It's impossible to deal with the absolutes you're forcing this conversation towards, but psychological studies more then prove my point. You're can't honestly believe that the physical/emotional wants/needs of men and women are equal. That's just naive. It's a bit pathetic the way you cling to life, trying to control everything you encounter. Do you have daddy issues? Did you have a traumatic childhood? Something affected your development early on and your defense was to rigidly try to control anything that found its way into your life. The sad part is that you're going to try to do this in your relationships and your world is quickly going to come crashing down around you eventually because you can't admit when you're wrong. In any case, your personality type is impossible to reason with. Even with logic and evidence you will stubbornly refuse to accept what is, arguing your point until your opponent gives up in frustration. I will therefore make this an easy one for you and refuse to continue on this subject any further. A 20 year old female lacks the knowledge or experience to properly formulate a conclusion worth taking note of in this regard. Your words have no value whatsoever, much like their owner.

You're not reading what I said. I said that it's not the case that the man wants such-and-such and the woman wants such-and-such 100% of the time. I know this. I'm not trying to control anything; I'm telling you you can't read and you're wrong. That's not controlling. I take offense to your middle paragraph, despite not having any past issues. FYI, my relationship is just fine and I am in no way controlling. Thank you for assuming. Do you know anything about psychology? It appears you're full of the jargon yet you don't understand a word of it. I can certainly admit when I'm wrong; but since I am a psychology student currently, I can certainly tell you that you are wrong. We just finished a unit on sexuality relating to what you're trying to talk about here. "My personality type"? You know nothing of me. You're the one trying to tell me that I'm wrong when I've studied this recently. You're the one not backing down and refusing to admit that, hey, you might be wrong. You're the one not realizing what jargon is coming out of your mouth. A 20 year old female definitely can have, and in my case has, the intelligence and the knowledge/experience. Did you seriously say I have no value? Are you honestly resorting to insults? Good lord, get a life.

I'd also like to point out that you're 21, and therefore have no "knowledge or experience to properly formulate a conclusion worth taking note of in this regard." One year will not make that much of a difference, so if you think that I have no experience etc, neither do you.

ohthebloodygore 16

Wow. Men like him, make me resort to women and transsexuals. Anyways, don't women mature faster than men? Therefore her brain at 20 is far more advanced then yours at 21. See? That there is what you did. You took something that is SOMETIMES true, but not always. Also, not ALL men have that fantasy. My friend personally finds it disgusting to see two women do more than kiss. He's not homophobic he just doesn't want to see it. Another idiotic 'point' you made, I've met a LOT of women who go through guys quicker than guys go through women. They do it for the sex and could care less about the emotional part. I also know plenty of guys who cry whenever they're dumped, or think their girlfriend isn't paying much attention. Your points MAY be true in some cases, but please stop stereotyping. Don't insult Steph. She didn't insult you. If anything you refused to answer her because she was somewhat right. You're an idiot.

wait... so ur girlfriend has more girlfriends than you do? as in she has more friends that are girls, than you do? Thats not such a big deal. You probably have more boyfriends (as in friends who are guys) then her... Who cares?

zxpr0jk 0

Instead of saying FML, you should be saying, "can you, me, and her get together for a little reunion?" Y-Don't-DI

sounds like the OP is feeling insecure about his gf's bisexual experiences. She's with you, so you really have nothing to worry about. Maybe you should have a chat with her about it, try and tell her (in as non-offensive a way as possible) that you feel a bit worried about her previous experience/sexuality. She'll probably tell you that you have nothing to worry about. As many other posters have shown, a lot of people would not see this as a big issue. would you be worried if she'd had more boyfriends than you'd had girlfriends? It really isn't any different. She obviously likes guys too or she wouldn't be dating one!

AceArctic 4

I feel your pain bro. That really hits me where I live

foryoublue94 0

How is that bad? Unless you've had like 34