We need to talk

By Anonymous - 30/07/2015 19:29 - Canada - Foam Lake

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Today, I just found my husband on Craigslist. He's working away from home, and he's looking to give a blowjob. FML
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ford_chick_22 12

My question is why were you looking in that part of craigslist?

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Mightytall 35

Don't be judging too fast. Maybe someone is playing a really nasty prank on him.

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LegionRapier61 8

Well.... look at it this way, you might lose your husband, but you might also gain a gay friend!

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wordhippie 10

My question: who in Saskatchewan uses Craigslist? Kijiji is way better!

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exoticDeath 20

Follow up please?

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zadarose 2

omfg I've had this happen to me as well!!! he was looking to be with a man!!! omfg I feel u!!

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rabbi1010 29

hes your husband. confront him.

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fmyhardon 16

So he was in another city, and you went to that cities CL m4m casual encounters looking for him, and found him? Obviously this isn't just out of the blue, you must have had strong reason to suspect. Being gay is ok. Cheating; meh. Unprotected sex with people who frequent CL casual encounters: ew!!!

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caseDL6 12

saskatchewan isn't heavily populated, there are only two cities that have craigslist. the neighbouring cities would use those, so it's possible that one could stumble across an ad that was posted from a different city or town.

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fmyhardon 16

Run! To the doctors; now!!! What are you still doing here, seriously? Go get tested for every STI known to man. CL casual encounters is a disgusting cesspool. If he's giving blow jobs to guys from there there's a very good chance he's contracted something in the past and gave it to you. Run!!!

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bnbhimp 10

He's definitely working.

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rogerover 19

He sounds like a generous guy. At least he's not always just "take take take!"

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meelizabeth3 4

Well. I suggest do nothing at all. Calm down. Nothing is more important than keep peace within. Wait all emotions be gone. You need to learn to trust and accept... We understand other people when we accept the fact. If he married you, he loves you. If you don't love him, you can walk away or play the game. If you love him... Wait a bit. You be embarrassed if somebody was playing a joke with him. Well, I know for fact that gay term is different -- some still feel in love with women. At least he won't cheat on you with a girl. I wish you just let it go and have sex with him like nothing happen. In every relations you find some positives and weakness - but he makes you happy and you have chemistry - that is important.

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HighlandShadows 48

While I agree OP should wait a bit to confirm this wasn't an immature prank and to assess her own feelings, I certainly don't think she should "do nothing at all." She needs to have a talk with her husband to figure out exactly what's going on here and figure from there how to handle the situation. And how you can think it somehow makes it better that he might be cheating with a man and not another woman is beyond me. Cheating is cheating, regardless of the details. And because OP phrased this FML the way she did, I'm thinking that she feels it might actually be worse than if it were another woman. And the idea that she should "have sex with him like nothing happened" is also a bit naive. If he's cheating on Craigslist casual encounters he could quite possibly have developed a disease, to say nothing of the fact that if he's cheating there's going to be some trust issues in the relationship. Would you have sex with someone you no longer trust? OP needs to have a serious talk with her husband, if he's been lying to her about his sexuality/fidelity they have a lot to discuss.

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HighlandShadows 48

Also, whether or not he loves her may be a moot point. Some might argue that you wouldn't cheat on someone you really loved. But assuming he does love her and STILL cheated, it's her feelings that have been hurt. Is she supposed to disregard her feelings in favor of his? Are his feelings more important in the relationship than hers?

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