Grow up

its a trap

I know exactly how you feel bro

your age is showing! why dont you look at it as they actually accept your girlfriend as a part of the family. I have been in a relationship with someone for four years and two days ago my family finally accepted him as a part of our family allowing him to attend family parties and holiday events. You are lucky, put a ring on that girl's finger and thank your family for being so welcoming because it could have caused bigger issues in your relationship. end rant.

Don't complain, it means you chose well. I know what it's like to dread seeing certain in-laws.

40, I tell him! it's a three hour bus ride and it's hard to get a ride because of gas. My boyfriend doesn't want me to go because it gets dark early which means it'll be dark when I leave. Also my parents make a big deal out of it all. I feel like I put excuses but I mostly don't do it because my boyfriend is afraid something will happen to me. He knows I'm ambitious but he also knows I won't want to leave his house early. I'd want to leave at 8, get home at 11. Would you want that for your girl?

My brother does the same thing. Ignores me runs to my boyfriend to hug him and only says hi when my boyfriends tells him too

Its like my in laws. They love me more than their son.