Now you need to figure out if you are attracted by the wrong kind of men or if you are sabotaging your relationships… The first step to improvement is figuring out what the problem is. Best of luck to you OP.

Relationships are about trial and error. If you’re constantly having relationship failures, you must get to the root of the problem. Every relationship must be a learning experience. List down the things that went wrong and take measures to not repeat those mistakes in the future. I get it, we all get blindsided by people. People are good at putting on a mask when we meet them, but as you get to know them, the red flags start popping up and you’ll see their personality in a more holistic way. With that said, make a list of non-negotiables and things you won’t tolerate in your next relationship moving forward. This step separates the wheat from the chaff and will assist you in finding someone compatible that matches your values and will show up in a way that you deserve. It all starts with you.

Yeah, you are the problem. You evidently are a magnet for shitheads. The key is figuring out how to turn that ******** magnet off.