Love, Lonely, Relatable and Solitude: Monster Mash

Monster Mash

By John - 30/10/2021 05:00

Today, I realized I'm a failure as a man. It's been 17 years since a woman even touched me. I grew up fatherless, have completely lost hope for any chance of a wife or kids. I'm 35 and never been in a relationship. I'm a complete failure because of all this, and have become a monster. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 233

You deserved it 371

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By Anonymous - 27/04/2024 00:00 - United States

Today, I lost all hope of finding a man. I’m gonna be 34 and I can’t get a date to save my life. I was cursed with a facial deformity and 285lbs of weight, making all men run for the hills. All of my younger sisters have got married and started families. FML

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You deserved it 246

What a pity

By Anonymous - 03/07/2024 09:00 - United States

Today, I realized I will never find love again. I broke down after I finally realized that no woman will love me like I used to be loved. I have not dated anyone for almost 10 years. I try to go on dates, to no avail. I will forever be alone and I will forever be tortured by my loneliness. FML

I agree, your life sucks 305

You deserved it 392

Alexa, play "Don't Give Up" by Peter Gabriel

By Anonymous - 19/12/2021 10:58

Today, I've come to terms that I'm only living to work. I'm going to be 25, no friends, never had any experience with women. Been trying all year to meet someone, hasn't worked out at all. Dead end job, school did nothing for me. I literally just exist to work, and have no happy memories at all. I give up. FML

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You deserved it 237

Forever alone, forever

By AloneAtPerkins - 14/06/2020 05:04

Today, I realized that I've only had 3 men show interest in me: A blind man, a drunk, and a guy so desperate, he's been trying for over 5 years of solid "No"s. I'm 21. FML

I agree, your life sucks 1 302

You deserved it 376

Projection

By killmenow - 14/06/2022 06:00

Today, after crying after remembering how horribly wrong it went, 10 years ago, with the only person I was ever able to trust enough to let them get close to me, and how no amount of therapy seems to help me, I read an FML about how nobody wants to date a 30 year-old who has never dated. I'm 29 and might as well give up. FML

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You deserved it 250

I am a man

By FREEDOM - 09/09/2024 16:00 - United States

Today, I left my wife of 25 years. For every one of those years, I was treated like a stupid child or a worthless burden. When I finally got fed up, everyone said I was the bad guy. I just want to be treated like a man. FML

I agree, your life sucks 527

You deserved it 147

Forever alone

By Anonymous - 04/04/2024 03:00 - United States

Today, I'm 23, but my development was starved due to my overprotective parents. My peers never accepted me, even though I tried to find someone to be friends with. To this day, I've been told I come off as creepy by more women than I have fingers on my hands. I feel like a fifteen year-old walking around in a man's body. FML

I agree, your life sucks 503

You deserved it 148

Single life

By idk what to do - 04/03/2021 00:30

Today, I'm 22 year-old woman, and my entire family thinks something is wrong with me because I've never been in a relationship. I'm starting to believe them. FML

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You deserved it 159

A tale as old as time

By Anonymous - 07/07/2023 09:00 - Canada - Surrey

Today, I realized ruined I'd my life forever when i broke up with the girl of my dreams by being stupid 11 years ago and I'm still missing her. I haven't been able to move on ever since, and she is now married and has a kid. Don't ever take anyone for granted, I know I deserve this but… FML

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You deserved it 1 123

Watching your prime go by

By Anonymous - 29/03/2022 18:01 - United States - Verona

Today, I've reached the age as a sexless loser where my family no longer tells me to find a "single lady" but rather a "single mother". Thanks for reminding me everyone else had fun in their twenties. FML

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You deserved it 230

1known 30

Saturday 30 October 2021 7:45

Now that you are aware of your difficulties you can work on them. Seek therapy, do things for others, go make some sports, discover new fields of studies, become a volunteer, find a positive hobby and the best is yet to come.

And1 12

Saturday 30 October 2021 7:02

None of what you say makes you a ‘failure’. You are only young - most of your life is still waiting for you.

Comments

Larissa E. Royster 15

Saturday 30 October 2021 6:20

You are not a failure. You are amazingly uniquely you.

And1 12

Saturday 30 October 2021 7:02

None of what you say makes you a ‘failure’. You are only young - most of your life is still waiting for you.

1known 30

Saturday 30 October 2021 7:45

Doom_Kitty 12

Saturday 30 October 2021 11:40

Nothing of this makes you a failure. And nothing of this makes you a monster. What makes you a monster is deciding to not do something against the progress of becoming a monster.

RichardPencil 30

Saturday 30 October 2021 17:09

This weekend should work out great for you! You might win some Halloween costume contests without even trying.

Jonkbaby 22

Saturday 30 October 2021 18:14

Hey failing is a huge part of being a man, my man. No reason to give up hope. It just takes a spark to start something. But I would look into talking to someone professionally, as it sounds like the lack of strong male figures has wounded you my friend. Kudos to you for making it this far, that is something to be proud of

IHaveThePower 16

Saturday 30 October 2021 21:11

My uncle didn't get married until he was 50. There's time, trust me. Go talk to a therapist, it'll do you good.

diraven 15

Sunday 31 October 2021 4:22

Don't give up hope, man. I didn't really start dating until I finally got my life together at 34. By 39 I got married to a tall, blonde 24-year-old college babe.