Yea op. sorry but you married a dick. Good for you for losing 20 lbs!

Is he a Mentally abusing husband? Damn sorry OP you should be proud of yourself and keep your head up. 20 pounds is a lot of weight so good job. Just remain healthy and smile.

what a douche

Hahahaha your picture of drake- yes.

How do you know his does? You don't know anything about OP, just because she posted an FML doesn't automatically make her some great person.

I'm hoping OP's husband is wrong. Maybe they were dieting together and he didn't get the same results? Just a wild guess because he didn't even congratulate her. Congrats OP!

Should have responded with "no sex sucks to"

I

You?

Donkey!

If she's a bitch, being attractive wont make her personality more likeable. Don't be so quick to assume its his fault. Even if she's turning heads he'll probably still think her personality sucks.

Pushing herself to lose weight to please and satisfy her husband doesn't really come off as the "bitch" attitude for me. Its actually more caring, and thoughtful in doing something to please someone else. Opposite of bitch actually.

you can be a total bitch and still want to please your husband. think about it.

Chances are that her husband is the asshole here, though. What kind of spouse pushes someone to lose weight and then insults them even more afterwards? You're better off without him, OP.

You assume too much. We don't know if he pushes for her to lose weight. It's possible she wanted to lose weight on her own to please him, but perhaps he's like this now due to all the marital problems they had. There's too much unknowns here to just call him an asshole

no, he's an asshole. the other variables don't even matter. his statement was rude and pretty hurtful to op. doesn't matter if she is, fact is... he is. lol.

So by that logic, if you call an asshole an asshole, you yourself are one? I thought that was just stating a fact?

Noone knows if he was pushing her to lose weight. All we know is that out of the kindness of her heart she was losing weight for him, to make him happy. The comment he made happened to have been a very asshole-ish one. That doesn't really make him a 100% asshole. None of us know what's going on with their relationship. Maybe she was losing the weight to try and bring some spice back into a failing marriage? Lets not all assume things here.

He is probably just jealous that she looks better than him now

And ruin the hard work she did? While she did it to impress her husband OP lost the weight for herself also.

You know this how? Op could have been completely fine with her weight for all you know. What's with all the assumptions on this fml?

75 - No assumptions, the OP literally says she lost twenty pounds "to please my husband."

How does "to please her husband" = for herself as well?

And I'm sure you're one of them.

It depends, if you start out at 300 than 20lbs isn't even close to being enough to cover up a shit personality

*Suddenly a wild fat OP appears* If she started out at, say... 240lbs and lost 20, she is probably still fat. Depending on her frame, of course. We don't know how much she weighed at first.

#61, you're right, I should have gone with, "Aw, I'm sorry. I'll be your 'friend.'"

#67 and #69, What about the opposite scenario? What if she started at a thin 105, and went to an anorexic, emaciated 85? Not likely, but you have to consider all the possibilities. Ok, maybe you don't.

I'd still hit it, tiny chicks are crazy

Who ******* cares? Her husband is still an asshole.

Hahah!! Awesome!

The word you forgot; counselling? :)

That's it Demon, Thanks :D

Your welcome :)