And they say romance is dead…

By Anonymous - This FML is from back in 2012 but it's good stuff - United States

Today, my boyfriend of two years accidentally admitted to me that he settled for me because he doesn't think he can do any better. FML
I agree, your life sucks 32 441
You deserved it 2 940

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Tell him you settled for him because you felt sorry for him.

But on serious note ALL women are a beautiful no matter what anyone says. You're worth more than that!

Comments

dramaqueen1111 2

that's awful! i vote dump him.

Maybe you are so beautiful that he knew there wasn't anything else better than you. Therefore, he had to settle with stopping his search. It may be a compliment????

I'm willing to bet that you can do better.

Mr25_fml 14

punch him in the balls. then you'll be even

um i dont see a problem. girls dump guys all the time saying theyll never find anyone better. atleast he admits he wont find better.

Oh and HOW NICE OF HIM. I don't know anyone who has done it, but sounds like you're one to do it.

The problem is that he said he SETTLED for her. 'Settled' means he didn't WANT to choose to be with her and that she doesn't meet his standards but he doesn't think anyone who meets his standards would look his way. It means he has low self-esteem and self-confidence but has also destroyed HER self-esteem and self-confidence now because it means she is second best or just the only person who gave him a chance which is heart-breaking to hear, especially if you love the one who says it. Now all she'll be able to think about is whether he truly meant a single word he said to her for the two years, or if they were all lies to make her stay with him. So it truly is an 'FML' because this could destroy the very essence of who she is by leaving her with no self-confidence, no self-esteem and trust issues.

LMAO!! Thats why they're called anchormen, not anchor ladies!

Maybe he thought he could settle but you need to show him how much better you can do

if you think about it, its almost a compliment...

pm_sky 0

i hope you said "but i can, see ya'"

cash_monkey72 9