yea more like f his life??

I think this is more for both. She doesn't explain WHY she wants to leave her husband so we can't assume anything but from her content, it's more FYL for him and not her.

wow you suck at life! How could you do that? Your a horrible person BITCH!!!!

# 155: to a certain extent I see your point. However, while in theory she could have waited a few days, that isn't always practical. Dragging things out can hurt worse a lot of the time. If she'd waited he may have thought "But I brought her flowers last week, and everything seemed fine. She didn't say anything then." She also might have already been waiting for a long time to do this, and at a certain point you cannot wait anymore. Also, there is no indication here that they "immediately resorted to divorce." All we know is she chose a day to tell him she didn't want to be married anymore. For all any of us know they could have spent years trying to make it work. People need to stop abusing this woman without knowing the whole story. I stick by my original thought. It's FHisL for coming home to news of his wife divorcing him. It's FHerL because she clearly feels guilty if not for making the decision, then certainly for when she told him.

That is brutal and cold hearted

i hope when i get married i have a husband like that, who brings me flowers for no reason... because from what i understand most husbands do not do that.

you are a horrible person- you just decide to leave your husband? he obviously isn't the problem if he's still that into to you and romantic- you should be ashamed.. man what is this world coming to?!? IF YOU DONT WANT TO BE MARRIED FOR LIFE DONT GET MARRIED

My god too much left unsaid to judge you for leaving your husband. I have to say while its a bummer for you because him showing affection makes everything even more emotional than at least I hope it is for you, the FML lies with him. The only way i revoke my you deserve it is if ending for a truly sincere reason. Good luck and I hope you aren't making a mistake. and #163, I hope when I get married I have a husband that loves me, flowers or not.

#79, I'll tell you why buying someone flowers and letting someone know your plans ahead of time in case they have a problem equals love. Grown men do not give two ***** about asking permission to do something they want to do unless they honestly care about the people around them, especially their wives. There's more to love than saying it once a day and ******* no one but your spouse. Considerate and romantic gestures, particularly small and subtle ones, not only please most people but it eliminates little things to complain or argue about, which are one of the main snowballs that grow and eventually ruin marriages. Most guys do not go even partially out of their way to do something without being asked, let alone ask permission to bring his own friend into his home.

Wow, talk about being harsh. I feel bad for the guy.