Bad timing

By kellym - 22/04/2009 03:24 - Canada

Today, I called my husband and he told me that he was going to invite his friend Jeff over that night. I told him I would prefer that he didn't come over. He took it to mean that I wanted to spend time with him and came home with flowers. Then had to tell him I was leaving him. FML
I agree, your life sucks 19 626
You deserved it 158 133

Same thing different taste

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FHL indeed. hate to tell you this, but the world does NOT revolve around you. and from the sound of it, you leaving him is the best thing you can do for him :P

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curryndricegirll 0

Why would you leave him then? Honestly, if you're reason is because you just don't "click" anymore, it's a pretty stupid reason. Obviously, he was making a conscious effort to make you happy. Whatever, he'll find someone better.

DeathByIrony90 0

and you had to divorce him today, right then and there? Right after he bought flowers? It couldn't have waited for a more convenient time, say tomorrow? That's the real reason why it's a YDI. Honestly, you could have at least been polite about it. Looks like he's only got Jeff to turn to now, and maybe God/jesus/whatever if he's real religious or something...

little_musician 0

Regardless of the contextual information that was NOT given to us by the person who posted, how could this really be an FML? Yes, it must have been somewhat uncomfortable, but she certainly did not receive the brunt of the hit. I am not saying that the people who have called her a bitch/*****/etc. are RIGHT, but she certainly has deserved it. She was very vague, and posted despite the fact that she was not on the receiving end of the mishap. It was her fault that she worded this post in such a way that it is sympathetic to the husband. It may have not been intentional, but intentions mean very little when the end product is contrary to those intentions and people are more or less unaware of these intentions (subconscious or not). It is impossible to say who deserved what--yes, the husband could either have been abusive, an adulterer, an alcoholic, or just a plain old ass. Any of these examples could go out and buy flowers and refuse a friend, as a guilt-easer. And yes, the husband could have been sweet, wonderful, caring, etc. and possibly clueless. The wife could be a bitch, a ****, or the scarred-for-life-by-a-bad-marriage woman who had finally found the nerve to leave her abusive husband. WE WILL NEVER KNOW (unless someone here knows this lady and her husband personally). But all things aside, keep dissing her (or the husband, if you so wish). She's certainly earned it for being so obscure.

wow, thats not an f your life thats definitely an f his life. thats so sad.

definitely expecting an fml right now that says.. "today, I invited my friend over. I called my wife to make sure that was fine, and she said no. So, assuming that she wanted some alone time with me, i went out and bought the nicest bouquet of flowers i could find. I got home, my wife thanked me for the flowers, and then proceeded to inform me that she was leaving. F her. FML" there ya go ;D

Today, my wife called me and I told her that I was going to bring a friend home. She immediately says that i couldn't. Thinking that she wanted to spend some time "together," I returned home from work with flowers for her. Then she tells me she wants a divorce. FML. THAT is how this FML should go.

YDI. SHould have talked about your problems in the relationship like ADULTS DO!

u r a cold hearted bitch...u could have held off from telling him until the next day he bought u flowers bitch

Esme_fml 0

This is all that bastard Jeff's fault.

Wtf? Why would you leave him the day he broughtflowers. Poor guy.