Bad timing

By kellym - 22/04/2009 03:24 - Canada

Today, I called my husband and he told me that he was going to invite his friend Jeff over that night. I told him I would prefer that he didn't come over. He took it to mean that I wanted to spend time with him and came home with flowers. Then had to tell him I was leaving him. FML
I agree, your life sucks 19 623
You deserved it 158 127

Same thing different taste

Top comments

FHL indeed. hate to tell you this, but the world does NOT revolve around you. and from the sound of it, you leaving him is the best thing you can do for him :P

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Exlibris 0

#167 While I agree with most of what you said, it is the home both of them live in so really she does have at least some say in it. Most of all though, sometimes the gestures like that can be covering problems too and assuming OP isn't a complete bitch it sounds like that could be it. I mean really, how awkward is it to have a friend around when you are arguing with your other half?

tdawgheath 0

Why do people even bother getting married anymore? It means nothing, obviously.

Oh. Damn.. Well that's definitely a FHL. It really doesn't equate to a FYL just because he made a wrong assumption and brought flowers, even if the flowers are to suck up and cover for things in the past. Still, too much left unsaid that could influence who gets the FtheirL so YDI for this not being a FYL currently. Next time say he beats you or something so you don't look like the bitch in the situation. Just a thought.

kellster 2

He sounds like a nice guy - ditching his buddy to spend time with you at the last second, AND bringing you flowers on top of it. I'm guessing you're leaving him for someone else. Your poor (soon-to-be-ex-)husband.

**** you you bitch! your such a loser, i hope this doesnt get "reported" or wtv, cause who ever wrote this can go screw herself

emmaxohsnap 0
sweetcharades 0

Having read all the stuff people have said, I just have to say that it's hard to tell whether you YDI or FHisL. I still don't see why you had to right then and there. Now, if you guys had been trying to work things out I can understand the need to do it as soon as possible. But, based on the information given, it just reminds me when one guy broke up with me on Valentine's day. Now, if you weren't communicating with him about your problems then you're both better off not married. I feel sorry for the people who think that they can truly be happily married for a while without real communication then things get ****** up when reality hits them.