Catfished

By Iman - This FML is from back in 2009 but it's good stuff - United States

Today, I found out that the girl I've been dating online for over three months is actually a very bored 14-year-old boy. FML
I agree, your life sucks 117 165
You deserved it 294 078

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I can understand meeting people online.. but dating? -_-

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OP: You make me feel really good about myself. Thank you. /Dumbass!

Now really. I can understand MEETING someone online, and I can understand LDR's, and I can understand being in a relationship before you've met in person (thanks to the magic of telephones, webcams and various other technologies) and I can understand a combination of all three factors. I get all of this, and I think it's awesome since, as a dating method, it seems to do all right - especially in the "getting to know you" factor. (Judgey's friend: "Yeah, plus, most people spend their lives online anyway, so part of it isn't all that different to other kinds of dating anyway.") I do not, however, understand this. You say "Online Dating" which I would take to be some kind of combo of the above factors but seriously dude, check it out: if you go a year without seeing a photo or webcamming or getting a phone call or ANYTHING that might have revealed your partner's true identity, then that is really... weird. I mean, a year? Seriously?? This is kinda 50/50. Definitely FYL. I won't go so far as to say YDI but really now; if you're gonna do the thing, do the thing properly, ya know?

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squeaksx24 0

You know skype is free.... A whole year and you didn't see them in person (even if it is through skype) once? Surely that would make anyone suspicious...

you definitely deserved that one dude, a whole year is a long time to go in complete silence. You should have at least attempted to initiate something at the couple month period, and even if you did, it should have seemed a little weird that the other person kept denying it, especially if you two are dating. Nothing wrong with meeting people online, big problem with not trying to contact them IRL. FYL indeed . . .

NoBounceNoPlay 0

So, are you going to try to find adult women or are you going to go the gay pedophile route?

How do you date online? Do you meet on MSN, and then go to Fmylife for a laugh, some **** site for sex and mcdonalds.com for food? You sir are pathetic.

I feel for you. I met the love of my life online, and we dated online for two years before I could finally move near to him. However, talking to someone that long without phone or webcam... is kinda silly...