It would be interesting if someone with alopecia universalis gave their opinions on this.

Sounds a little like me...

Anyone accusing people who prefer shaved partners of being a pedo is wildly off the mark. Maybe these people just like a clean junk? Like the feeling of it? Or (echoing ladidadi) if I shave my facial hair, does that somehow mean I'm trying to impersonate a child or attract only pedophile women? Get real. In any case, if I wanted a chick to shave down there, I would be just as willing to shave myself. No reason to be hypocritical -- and yes, Luckster, men are every bit as capable of experiencing razor rash as women. You don't have a monopoly on having hair grow back stubby. :P

He was an ass. That said you should shave.

It's a turn off to many people. I prefer it shaved. Why wax my chest and ab region? It looks better in my opinion.

Well, you *should* shave that shit. Gross. Also, if you don't know this guy very well, how do you expect him to be sensitive? I'm sure "this really cute guy" isn't your boyfriend, so it's not like he's going to think about your feelings when he ***** you. :) You get what you pay for.

"He invited me over to make dinner at his place"....dude was on a winner, you'd already cooked for him. But, I wouldn't be stopping the game then. However, as #27 said, if you want him to 'really' look after you, a tidy up doesn't hurt a bit. That sid, he could have been a little polite about the deal. As I said, he was already on a winner!!

I don't think it's gross to not shave. Just manage it & keep it neat or at least trim it :). & was his shaved? If not, what a hypocrite!

Some hair is ok, but if its the jungle as your message seems to imply, you need to trim it down.

But really, who want to **** someone who hasn't gone through puberty?! or atleast looking like they haven't. must be wrong on some level.