Because she's had enough and just wants to get some sleep, that's why. If you watched enough "Seinfeld," you'd have learned that. It's good you put (sexual) in parentheses. Maybe women fake orgasms because in so many other aspects of our lives we are taught to pretend we like things we really don't.

Umm no not all girls should **********. You should only do it of you want to. I personally find it absolutely disgusting and wouldn't do it for anything. What's wrong with just experimenting with your man to find what works? That's more fun then writing him a detailed instruction manual to follow.

Well, that is certainly up to you but you missed the point. How are you going to tell him if you don't know yourself?

That's where the experimentation with him comes in. It's more fun to let him discover it.

And the result would be that he couldn't find your ass with two hands, a flashlight, a roadmap and directions from the town drunk. So sad. You should try it already. You might like it.

How could you ever expect someone to be able to please you when you don't know how to please yourself?

Because that's kind of his job in a sense. It's my job to please him and his to please me, but only when we both want to and only doing what we both feel comfortable with. I don't need to please myself because I have him. He's only turned me down for sex I think 3 times in the 4 years we've been together because he was either too tired or sick. Other than that if I want it, he does too so we both win. I have no need to get my hands dirty.

#61 please let me buy you a vibrator... Then you won't need to get your "hands dirty". Sex is a two way street. It is not solely his job to get you off and vice versa. Knowing your own body will allow you to experience orgasms far greater than just "winging it" when you have sex. There is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating! Have you ever heard how men are visual? Playing with yourself can be a huge turn on to your man. You shouldn't judge something without having tried it first.

I have tried it, and I felt like a filthy ***** afterwards. My husband is free to please himself if he wants to, but any pleasure I get is solely from him. He gives me plenty of it and likes to do so, so why do something I don't want to do when everything else is working just fine?

43, maybe OP does. Some people just aren't that much into sex.

I feel it should be about what the person involved thinks it should. -_- However, OP, this is some iron you may want to hammer while hot, that is, speak politely and do not let any session end unsatisfactorily.

It gets to a point though after awhile where you get tired and are hurting pretty badly so you just need to end the session before it makes things worse. Not to mention after awhile you'll just get plain sick of it.