Consent

By jon - 31/08/2012 21:31 - Canada - Toronto

Spicy
Today, my girlfriend and I were having sex. I thought I'd be spontanous and spice things up, and gave her a spank across the butt. She started crying. FML
I agree, your life sucks 32 745
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Same thing different taste

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Did you say "THAT'S for dropping the dish on the floor!" when you did it? You may be slightly misguided in your spanking technique.

Not everybody likes to be spanked. That shit hurts--why do you think little kids cry too?

Shadow_Phantom 26

Like they said; doesn't hurt if you do it right. I was spanked as a kid, but for some reason find it sexy now that I'm older. Then again, I'm not being spanked with a belt, soooo... yeah.

Aww. I thought it was time for another random song thread. D:

Does that song thread on any comment apply to everyone?

^ Guys, looks like we got ourselves a little acapella group forming. Count me in. ;) The rest.....will be history. ;P

You should always ask before trying something new during sex.

Some of us like it (not naming names) & some don't! Always ask first! YDI

Hopefully tears of joy. Maybe she's into that kind of thing. Pain turns into pleasure.

You can't just take a wild guess at what would spice things up for her... Spanking is a mild form of bondage/discipline, and if you had no indication that she's into that, and that she would prefer the submissive role, then YDI. But in your defense, spanking has been oddly normalised, the way people talk about it. As if this is something that most girls like, or should like. Personally I've never seen the point of it. It just hurts. Or if it doesn't, it doesn't really do anything at all. Unless you use it in a "you've been a bad girl and need to be punished"-context, in which case it has a psychological effect - given that your partner is aroused by degrading. Which, obviously, is not a given.