being a blond, doesn't make you an idiot. Jesus, society these days..*eyeroll*

Well said sir.

So what about those of us who *don't* play hard to get and still can't get a bf [that isn't a jerk]? OP: YDI. Don't be stupid, next time.

You're probably ugly. O_o Or an idiot. Or one of those girls who expects to sit in their all-girl group of friends and have some guy magically come up and ask them out. AKA the girls who don't flirt with any guys, it really does help.

Well...there could be many reasons for that. - maybe you don't seem physically attractive for guys? (Easiest thing to change. A little sports, healthy food and make-up. That's it) - maybe the boys who get to know you don't like your character? (Believe it or not; there are actually some guys who care about character) - maybe you are a nice, goodlooking person, but you are boring? - maybe you are a really nice person, and you are also goodlooking (or at least not bad), but you fail to make yourself interesting for guys, despite you aren't boring. In this case, just do something that nobody would expect of you and maybe is funny. - maybe your expectations are too high, and therefore you miss the nice guys with big potential, just because they have one mistake, that you might find neglectable after a while - maybe you're just too shy? This, in fact, would be the most difficult thing to change. - maybe you are so georgeous that no guy has the balls to try and get you, because they all think "such a cool girl couldn't possibly be single". In that case, I say, women all over the world embrace emancipation, but only for the benefits they get from it, but still, they like being bought a drink or the man coming up to them. - maybe yoU have a characteristic or do something that instantly makes guys uninterested...like, for example, you are an extreme girlie-horse-nerd? - maybe you are too easy to get for everybody? - maybe you're one of these girls who overexert their bf? for example, you're jealous when your bf talks to a girl longer than 5 minutes or if you have your bf for 2 months, you start talking about children, marriage or moving together? Give things their time to develop. - maybe you live in San Francisco and all the guys are just gay? ;-D (Okay, if I was serious with that point, this would be the most difficult to change :-D) - maybe, in fact, all guys that you meet are just assholes. In that case, you should move to a new city. Hope, you found your personal flaw, 'cause that's all I can think of for now and this only can help you if you identified it. Only then can you change. Also hope you have the ideas, the will, and the strength to change :) Good luck!

#91 Wow, that was one of the best comments I've ever seen on FML. Great advice!