some gym open 24/7! :D

Yeah! So you can be like mzashley instead of being a heffer!!! :D It's only your fault your a piggy cuz you let yourself get like that....

so are some GYMS

Woww. you are inconsiderate aren't you?

no OP should of said "can you believe I dated this asshole?"

YOU are an asshole

I feel your pain brother. But insults now don't matter to me. What use does an insult from people so insignificant to you represent?

no where in this FML did the OP disclose her weight! It is all based on the ex's interpretation of fat, and if he's that superficial and like skinny girls, it's likely as well that the OP is really not fat but rather "fat" to his standards. Nevertheless, he's a douche saying what he said!

Wow, so now its superficial to date skinny girls? Hey, the girl I'm dating right now weighs 84 pounds, going to call me an asshole too?

hey 26. you are an asshole for dating some skinny girl that you like and that she happens to like you too. some people are get too hot and bothered for people dating skinny people. looks always count. its the first thing you notice on people and thats what makes you like a person or not. and then its personality

with that attitude I find it hard to believe you're overweight.

err 26: if you read my comment properly I stated being superficial and liking skinny girl as two separate statements linked by "and". So chill! OP's ex not only was upset that she was not up to his "standards", he also outright insulted her, so yeah I stand corrected!

31, exactly. You can't be in a relationship with someone you arent attracted to. Find a pretty girl, then find out if she has a good personality. if she does, its all good. if not, see what happens anyways, because not every girl is fit for a relationship, some are just the **** em and leave type.

67 I'm just trying to figure put how a woman can survive being 85 pounds, I'd be scared I'd break her haha

71, shes 5'0. Shes actually hit as low as 60, but she was really sick then...she bounced back in a few weeks, then later after a car accident she managed to get to 120 and felt like a cow..so she got herself down to around 80 where she thinks she looks best.

number 18 was a philospical win.

71 Well if she was between 4'11 and 5'2, it's not really a big deal. And, no longer speaking to 71, like it was said before, the first thing you notice about someone is looks...you can't see someone fro across the room and say, "wow, she is so nice and intelligent." you can however say," wow, she's gorgeous," and then find out about her personality. Why would you want to be with someone that you're not attracted to? Looks attract, personality seals the deal. They work as a pair, but one has to lead to the other.

Sublime I don't there is anything wrong with dating skinny people some people are just naturally tiny my best friend is 5 "8 and 95lbs it's not that she doesn't eat she is just tiny. But the comment **** em and leave them bothers me. It's just makes me feels that girls are stereotyped to where you either pretty and datable or ugly or screwable and then you leave them. I think people base relationships too much off sex and looks. But I do think that looks place some aspect in a relationship because there has to be chemistry.

The "**** em and leave" wasn't based purely off of attractiveness. He was saying they're someone he finds attractive and worthy of a relationship based off of personality or they're someone he finds attractive and not someone worthy of a relationship but worthy of a one night stand. Nowhere did he state that he would have a one night stand with someone and not date the person just because he found her unattractive.

Actually, the **** em and leave em comment was not directed at ugly girls, but at pretty ones with no personality. They've got their looks, but thats all they're good for. So **** em...then leave em. However, when it comes to an ugly girl, the personality will not matter, as one cannot be in a relationship with someone they aren't attracted to. Edit: to the one who commented before mine posted, read this one. I explain what i meant, and you missed my point it seems

thank you! there comes a point where people are just overweight and excuses should not be made for them. I'd say the same about someone who is too skinny. it's all about being HEALTHY

your the ass whole. it's not all looks. and if you think otherwise, then your gonna die a lonley man

Looks ARE important in a relationship. You simply cannot be in a meaningful relationship with someone who you find repulsive. Me, I find fat girls repulsive, so I wouldn't date one. My personal preference is to date skinny girls, and I have every right not to be attracted to fat ones.

#18 wow, don't u get it?!?! her ex is superficial (and apparently so are you)

u are an inconsiderate bitch, ya know.