perhaps he wouldn't have been so bad had you not already been fantasizing his actions/reactions. nothing can live up to your imagination. I say either leave him for your fantasies or don't compare him and teach him how to love you like you need.

at least you know, now you can move on

Bad sex is better than no sex

when in doubt. eat out

I'm cracking up at the "bean-flicking" part. I get that reference. :D FYI people, it's from The Ugly Truth movie just in case you didn't know. :p But anyway, back to the subject - sorry about that OP, but I guess you don't have to do it again if you don't want to. You didn't say the guy is your boyfriend. Too bad nothing ever lives up to expectations these days.

Well, that's more on you then him, then. You can't really expect a person to give you the sex of your dreams just because you want them to fulfill your fantasies.

'When all of your wishes are granted, many of your dreams will be destroyed.'

Its your fault...when you fantasize so greatly and a guy preforms less than that, even if it was still ok, you're gonna think its horrible

teach him. don't insult him.

I know a couple of girls who say they need the well hung man for pleasure and I I told them that they've been so used only someone with A dick down to their knees could please them.