Pretty sure even if he was some strange fetishist rather than the father, this would still make him a dick...actually, I think it would make him more of a dick. It's sad but understandable that a new father would get cold feet, especially if the baby wasn't planned. But serial dating women and dumping them as soom as they're ready to have the baby? Sounds pretty dickish to me.

I have to take issue with calling someone a 'sick fetishist' and 'more of a dick' because they have different sexual tastes than you do. What's next, someone's a 'sick ****' and 'more of a dick' because they don't like pickles on a hamburger? There's a quote often attributed to Sigmund Freud that fits this situation: The only unnatural sex is not having any.

The last few weeks of your pregnancy are not really a time to be making decisions like breakups/marriage etc, as things will be different when you actually have the baby and the new life. As long as he isn't an absolute piece of human filth, I would try to give him a chance, if/when he sincerely asks for one. If he really did want to break up or he's human filth I wouldn't take it too hard, being a single mother isn't a walk in the park but the social stigma is gone for the most part and there is so much support out there for you (financially, legally etc).

I don't see why people are giving this comment thumbs down. It's just the truth. Stop being over sensitive. There are SO many forms of protection nowadays, people only get pregnant if they get stupid. And stupid people shouldn't be having babies anyway.

'People only get pregnant if they get stupid.' Firstly, nice grammar. Secondly, how do you think humanity will survive without procreation? Lastly, it's not her fault for getting pregnant, but the ex's fault for getting her pregnant while he wasn't certain about the relationship. Who knows, maybe she didn't even see it coming.

Whoops, ignore this comment. Feel free to thumb it down.

46- what a rude comment. Keep that kind of ignorance to yourself.

What is wrong with you? You do realize that husbands leave their pregnant/postpartum wives quite often, right? My friend was married for 9 years, happily as far as she knew, and he left her at 8 months pregnant. He told her he had changed his mind about having children, and decided he didn't want to be a father. The stress actually made her go into labor prematurely.

54, People "are thumbing it down", because that comment is stupid. Unless you're sterile, birth control does not give 100% warranty. And even if you're in relationship or married, it doesn't guarantee that your spouse won't suddenly abandon abandon you at the most inconvenient moment possible.

54-- I took my bc pill every single day at 930. I even had my phone set to alarm to make sure it was at the exact same time every day, but I still got pregnant. Unless you have no sex, major reproductive parts removed, or have gone completely through menopause, you still have a chance to become pregnant.

I'm guessing its all the morons with the "wait until marriage" "maybe she was a *****" and other people like that.