if someone doesn't want to do something in bed, they shouldn't feel pressured to.

#24, if they don't do what their partner wants, maybe the two of them don't belong together. I don't know why the spit/swallow dilemma is so sticky -- once it leaves my body, I'm not concerned what she does with it.

It's a sub/dom complex some people have in the bedroom, and it's also about the idea that she'll suck until he blows.

some guys pressure girls, I thought that was what you were indicating. If you don't care, sorry I assumed.

I think you should be concerned...some girls are not above collecting sperm without your permission. Be concerned, be very concerned.

This is perdix. I think we all expect this kind of thing from him at this point. I find it best just to roll with it.

*my internet fight senses are tingling*

I hate guys who act this way instead of considering the seriousness of the girl's feelings. It's immature and rude; they need to grow up.

Ooh fun! We're replying to my reply! My turn ok I hate girls who are attention ****** and call all guys douchebags acting like they care for their friend because they're that fake! Your turn

#28 Because girls are always sensitive!

How is she an attention *****? For stating her opinion? If you did that, would it make you an attention *****? She's right, the guy is rude; it's pretty disrespectful to mess with anyone that way, and to ask something like that. She didn't say all guys are douchebags, she said guys like him are. She wanted a Valentine, and clearly he was too immature to handle that question.

You're pretty upbeat for an internet fight. Wanting respect from someone when you share your feelings is attention whoring?

Ummm.... What? What did being an attention ***** have to do with anything??

I really hate people who try to dictate how other people should act. Don't marry your own gender! Don't do art school, grow up and follow a real major! Don't emediatly let your intentions be known in a crude way! Was this rude? Yes. Does it deserve ranting? Yes. Can she talk shit about him? Yes. Does he need to change? No. The only actions that are controllable are your own. Don't like his response? Don't date him, call him a douchebag, but don't expect/desire him to change. If he likes being a douchebag then he's allowed to act like a douchebag. If people like being immature then they don't need to change for your favor, just like you don't have to be around those people. Your expectations of how people should act are just that, your expectations, no matter how reasonable they sound to you. People don't all need to fall in line and do the same things and act the same way. We are all indivuduals. That includes good character differences and bad and you aren't the person that decides what's good and what's bad.

#41: You "really hate people who dictate how other people should act", yet you are trying to dictate how other people should act. A bit hypocritical, don't you think? Other than that, your rant was a rambling bit of self-righteous nonsense.

I disagree just because you can act like a douche doesn't mean you should. Although a person doesn't have to act like everyone expects them to doesn't give this guy the right to be a pig. He could at least be civil

45, thank you for saving me time. 41, you are retarded. Complaining and telling them they need to change is just a reaction, just like not dating him would be. Not to mention that YOU're telling others to change.

hmm... I understand were you're going #41 but... I find it difficult to understand why people are assholes too each other in the first place. its his right to be who he wants to be, but it doesn't make the world a prettier place

41- emediatly?? You're kidding... Also, under your logic of not trying to change people, we shouldn't have done a thing about Hitler? Because hey, if he wanted to be a douchebag, "just let him."

"Don't like Nazis? Don't be one, and let them be." Yeah, 41, that's a brilliant philosophy to live your life by. What you're describing is called being a pushover.

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