Jailbird

By blondebarbie271 - 26/07/2015 23:55 - United States - Center Barnstead

Today, I had to bail my ex-husband out of jail. He didn't want his new wife to get mad at him. FML
I agree, your life sucks 22 347
You deserved it 14 501

Same thing different taste

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And you did this why? Doesn't seem like your problem to me.

Your ex needs to grow a pair. If his wife finds out on her own she'll be a lot more mad than if he just told her

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Why did you feel obligated to/ why did you do it?

AJTrask 8

I don't see why you're obligated to bail him out

ep1186 7

At first I thought "wow what a nice person" and I am assuming you are still friends or at least friendly with your ex and that is great. However, the more I thought about it, you are an idiot. 1. You did not HAVE to as he is an ex, a grown up and no longer your responsibility and 2. You just opened yourself up to a whole lot of misery because frankly his wife is going to find out. This isn't a case of something that happened in the past that he can hide, he will most likely have a hearing, need to hire a lawyer and have to pay a fine at the very least. And when his current wife finds out that he turned to his ex-wife for help in this kind of situation she will most likely be hurt, pissed off and majorly suspicious about your relationship. YDI

I don't understand why you even bailed him out I honestly don't

That's his problem, OP. I'd he's in the in the first place, he has to accept the consequences from his wife. YDI for bailing him out when it's nothing to do with you.

I've got news for you - this kind of thing will keep happening until YOU draw the line and say, no way am I doing that, and don't do it whatever the protests. You are not this person's mother.

Attacksloth 33

Honestly, YDI, unless he was being threatening, or has been threatening / abusive in the past. You don't owe him anything if you're broken up and he has a new wife.

if he was threating her, that would be all the more reason for her to leave his ass in jail.

You "had to"? You didn't have to do anything YDI

Oh you didn't have to, you chose to.