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YDI for bailing him out.
Why did you feel obligated to/ why did you do it?
At first I thought "wow what a nice person" and I am assuming you are still friends or at least friendly with your ex and that is great. However, the more I thought about it, you are an idiot. 1. You did not HAVE to as he is an ex, a grown up and no longer your responsibility and 2. You just opened yourself up to a whole lot of misery because frankly his wife is going to find out. This isn't a case of something that happened in the past that he can hide, he will most likely have a hearing, need to hire a lawyer and have to pay a fine at the very least. And when his current wife finds out that he turned to his ex-wife for help in this kind of situation she will most likely be hurt, pissed off and majorly suspicious about your relationship. YDI
I don't understand why you even bailed him out I honestly don't
That's his problem, OP. I'd he's in the in the first place, he has to accept the consequences from his wife. YDI for bailing him out when it's nothing to do with you.
I've got news for you - this kind of thing will keep happening until YOU draw the line and say, no way am I doing that, and don't do it whatever the protests. You are not this person's mother.
Honestly, YDI, unless he was being threatening, or has been threatening / abusive in the past. You don't owe him anything if you're broken up and he has a new wife.
if he was threating her, that would be all the more reason for her to leave his ass in jail.
You "had to"? You didn't have to do anything YDI
Oh you didn't have to, you chose to.
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And you did this why? Doesn't seem like your problem to me.
Your ex needs to grow a pair. If his wife finds out on her own she'll be a lot more mad than if he just told her