Well, now your husband has to support you while you sit at home and take sexy selfies for your male friend. And if your male friend wants to visit while your husband is at work, well, that was made possible by his sabotage.

Although stupid to do on your husbands part, I have to wonder how many times you have been late in the past if they fired you this time. Not many employers are willing to fire someone for being late one time.

Divorce him. 1. He just messed with your income. 2. People who are that paranoid that their significant other is cheating, are usually cheating. So I'd look into him and do some investigating. 3. He obviously doesn't trust you. You can't have a successful marriage without trust. You need to try marriage coubseling if you don't want a divorce. And I'm confused as to what changing your alarm clock has to do with cheating.