Well either; A: You really suck (no pun intended) at giving blow jobs OR B: He is really confused about his sexual orientation. Since you say he used the words "beauty sleep" I saying it's a safe bet the answer is B. Tell Cinderfella to either butch up or turn in his man card. If he ever had one...

What an asshole

That's retarded. She was trying to do something nice (fulfill his fantasy) and it backfired so possibly an apology is in order. But to consider that a sexual assault when they are boyfriend and girlfriend, and assuming they had sex before. It's not like one of them held the other one down and other one yelled for help because it was abuse. Should he ask her every time he wants to touch her breast or something? Or hold her hands? Or give her a kiss?

Why did you find it necessary to post this rant not once, but twice? Most couples who discuss fantasies with one another WANT them to happen. If the boyfriend never wanted to try the fantasy, I doubt he would've brought it up. And enough with the "sexual assault" argument- though TECHNICALLY it could be considered that, I highly doubt the boyfriend felt violated by the act (if you can even call it an act, since OP got shut down). He was randomly woken up, and was annoyed about it. That's really all there is to it.

Maybe he wasn't fully awake. I've been similarly grouchy when woken up in the middle of the night and don't remember anything about it the next morning.

Hit him in his junk and make him sleep on the couch

46, why would he tell her about this fantasy multiple times if he didn't want it to actually happen?

PHAGGOT

-10 Man points! now if it was 3 in the morning when you tried, Op.... Then shame on you!

is he gay?