The fail is on your part. Cause guys can fake it too. He voice can last as long as you need to touch yourself. So instead of cutting your performance short, extend his.

My advice to you: never fake it over the phone. You're only making him believe that he is doing a good enough job. What you should be doing is to let him keep trying until he does something that works!

LOL.

How do people meet people states away???? My boyfriends in another state but he's in the army. Maybe you should read some masturbation books :) lol

If you can't get off when you are doing it, it might not be him.

mine 9.. : ( but I ****** during phone sex.. just get really into it : )

Wonder if the op has had an ****** before. I've known friends who simply can't climax no matter what they do. If the op HAS had an ****** before with other guys or by herself, then the guy needs to learn how to please. If the op has NOT had an ****** before though then there might be a chance that she simply can't. So really details are missing here, but oh well, still sucks for her. Love watching my girl cum, it's one of the biggest turn ons ever. Sorry op, but fyl if you can't achieve an ****** and ydi if you can and are with someone who can't give you one. =(

I did this with my boyfriend. i was in california he was in florida. so we'd do this every night. he'd come out quick and I wasnt really into touching myself, it was ...awkward

ok....?

digital relationships are shit. if he moved while you guys were together I can understand that but if you don't or even barely know the guy then that's a bad idea.