Mixed messages

By mook - 15/07/2009 19:33 - United States

Today, my neighbor confessed to me that he was homophobic and regrets that his family doesn't know it. He spent fifteen minutes explaining how much he would hate to have a gay child. I spent two hours last night convincing his son that it was the right thing to tell his family he was gay. FML
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Gingerly 0

That's why you don't get involved in other peoples' business. But FYL because you reall were trying to help the kid.

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BLooDYxNiGHTS 0

F the kid's life. D: That's so shitty for him. His parents should accept him :/

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UncleverName_FYL 0

sorry but i have to LOL at #127 comment, it's just soo funny how it's written.

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aloneinthispainf 0

You deserved it for telling his to open up to his family. It's not right for evey one to tell there family and they have to make that choice on their own. Not by being pushed by other people.

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emkaytwo 0

First time I've heard of someone "coming out" as a homophobic.

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FlaminYawn 0

more like all homosexual should be killed..that's soooo ******* gross.

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insomniacdude 0

Sounds like your neighbors are pulling the greatest prank ever.

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insomniacdude 0

Also, you think this is an FML for you. I'm sure both the parent and the kid are going to feel ten times worse than you whenever the bombshell is dropped. Whether the parent's homophobia is inappropriate or not is not relevent, he's going to be screaming FML for a while and, from his perspective, it'll be much more ****** than yours for helping the kid out.

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musu_fml 0

Here's a thought; if the neighbour came to the OP and confessed being homophobic, maybe it's because the neighbour realises it's a problem and wants to do something about it so he can be more accepting and not turn against his son. Perhaps he needs some advice, just like the son did, and help in coming to terms with his son's sexuality. The OP may find himself in the wonderful position of being able to help both father and son; helping the son gather the strength to come out to his father, and helping the father be able to accept and love his son no matter who or what he is. If the OP even tries to do this, he deserves all the praise and respect I can give.

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Creston 0

I was going to say that, but you beat me to it. :) Like #151 said, the neighbour most likely came to you because he realised it was a problem. The fact that he recognises it and is willing to talk about it means that there's quite a chance that he could change. Recognising a problem is the first step to solving it- Denial won't do anyone any good. ...Heh, I can't find any way to put it better or include that #151 hasn't already. Do your best to solve this situation- You'll truly be helping them as a family. If worse comes to worst, try to support his son- Take him in until his family accepts him, or some such. The fact that the father mentioned this to you most likely means he has already guessed that his son is gay. That being the case, do your best to help him come to terms with it. There are people who simply can't accept differences, but do your best. Best of luck! Most of us here would be willing to help you, so if you encounter any problems feel free to post a reply here and we'll try our best. (Ignore the rude/close-minded people here.)

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