No shame
By bluewatersify - This FML is from back in 2010 but it's good stuff - Australia
By bluewatersify - This FML is from back in 2010 but it's good stuff - Australia
I know exactly how you feel. My father got my child support completely terminated and I haven't seen him in 8-9 years. I was planning on moving out this year too and now I have nothing to live on but my crappy income I call a job haha. I hope there's some way you guys can work it out because I know I'm trying to.
Haha, you people and your whacky trust in the US legal system. :D My father has never paid child support. The first four years we tried to take it to the courts, THEY NEVER EVEN FILED OUR PAPERWORK. Once they finally DID, we were more or less told that since he doesn't have a permanent address/job, we were SOL. Interesting side note, last year we got a random $150 check for child support (a first in 14 years). My mom, sisters and I all went out to dinner on Dad's check and had a jolly good time.
@theanonimouse The OP's location is actually listed as Australia. I'm sure some people commenting may be from the US, but the OP would technically have a whacky trust in the Australian legal system.
Well, then it's a good thing I was referring to the people commenting from the US, then, isn't it? For example, snickerdoodles' "Uh, isn't there a minimum requirement for child support payments? If your dad had been paying attention, he would have reported her a long time ago. FYL, but your dad is an idiot for letting her get away with that for so long." or spoiledgirl27's "your dad should have went through the courts, and you should be more pissed about her not being there not the money" or idkweird's "Also, your father could have reported it. She can still be liable for all the back support she never paid." or hrtstealer's "that *****. fyl. I would tell your dad to bitch smack her ass and call the us marshalls since you have her address since she made no payments. lock her ass up." And nowhere in the original post did the OP even indicate any kind of trust in the Australian legal system, so I'm not sure how my comment could be misconstrued as being in any way directed toward the original poster... But great observational skills spotting that location there, buddy. :)
We've been tracking down child support payments for years but since she doesn't have a permenant address, she lives in a post office, literally... it's pretty much impossible, not to mention it costs a heap of money to do anything about it in the legal system. don't even talk about how i've been 'sitting on my ass waiting for money to roll in'. When she has a job, which is hardly ever, she doesn't inform the government therefore does not have to pay child support. About your 'respect issues', my mother gave birth to four children that we know about, she took us all around Australia and dumped us in different states with people we didn't know. She has been married eight times and the other day, my brother got an add on facebook by a women who told us that our mother had married her brother and stolen all his money and run away, not to mention the seven other people that she did it to. My sister was also informed last year that the person she thought was her father, isn't at all. He's infact someone my mother cheated on her fifth husband with, and he's now dead. We've been trying to track down child support payments for years, last time we asked for the child support payments to be made, she showed up at our house with her 400 kilo 8th husband that tried to, literally stab us all to death. Want to say I deserved it now? Idiots. Don't comment on peoples life if you don't know the half of it. We moved 14 times in the year that I lived with her, she stole all the money my dad had and when she left she left him with a sleeping bag on a front lawn of a house that was up for sale. He bought it. Oh, and by the way. If you had more of a life, you wouldn't worry so much about my grammer. get over it. d
Sorry, I'm American, but isn't 400 kilos like 1200lb. I'm probably wrong because I don't get metric (please don't yell at me for being ignorant) Too bad about that OP, It's hard for me to understand those kind of problems since I don't really have them but I hope that things get better for you and your brother. The most remarkable par of this is that she's replying for a reduction. I mean I would think she would want to stay below the radar of child services
Wow...that may be the worst mother ever...of all time. I wish you the best of luck, and your mother the worst of it.
#76 400 kilos is about 800 pounds, and probably and exaggeration to describe how obese the guy is. Like saying "I got sat on by a 500 pound guy" but was probably more like 250.
once again no one cares what snickerdoodles has to say u curly headed Ginger ****, u look like a chick from pregnancy pact . . . the ugly one
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Wow.. Parent of the Year right there. :-/
"Welcome to the 21st Century"?! The the biggest load of bullshit I've heard #7!! This woman chose to squeeze these two kids out of her uterus, therefore she is just as responsible for raising and supporting them as the father. And I guarantee that if it was the father who was stiffing them on child support and ignoring their existence, you'd be calling him a deadbeat father. OP, you're better off without her in your life.