From cram session to pram session.

Yeah, it's always confusing, cause people mean it both ways.

It doesn't really mean that they are having sex every night, or frequently. It only takes one time to get pregnant.

and it only takes a single night of studying to pass a test and even the score, but op hasn't done that.

Thank you! Everyone keeps saying things "shouldn't be out having sex instead of studying" , when we really don't know if that was the situation at all.

One night of studying to pass a test? You must be taking bird courses if that's true, if I only studied the day before my test I probably wouldn't have made it through a single course in university.

I agree with 151. Even in High School, I had quite some time to prep for tests or exams. Not everyone can study for one night and call it good.

^ LOL

Orrrr keep the baby AND finish college. It's not easy, but it can be done, even by a single mother - I've seen it happen.

Orrrrr there's a third option that's statistically less traumatic and stressful for those who don't want to be mothers. Just sayin'.

Third option it is. Thank God for abortion :)

1.) We don't know that she's going around having sex with loads of people every night. It takes ONE time to get pregnant. So "have less sex" isn't really a valid point. 2.) Birth control isn't 100% effective. She might have been using it for all we know.

So killing an innocent for the sake of convenience is a good thing 108? The baby didn't ask to be conceived, but it happened. If OP has support from her family she will get through college and continue on in her career, even if she does give the baby up for adoption it's a better option. I don't know what statistics your pulling out your ass about abortion being less "traumatic" as you say, but as someone who has seen the depression and regret of hundreds of women who had abortions, I call bulls***. OP I hope everything works out for you. Don't look at your baby as a regret, or that's all you will see. Look at it as a new opportunity to start all over and bring new life into the world, there is a lot of help if you need it.

OP didn't ask to get knocked up & I'm sure that there are just as many people who regret adoption or keeping the kid as people who have abortions.

137, the only cases I've encountered where an abortion was more traumatic than going through the pregnancy and all the hell it inflicts on the body before holding the baby for one brief instant before it gets taken away were second or third trimester abortions done for medical reasons. Children that were wanted and loved by their parents but were either going to live short, painful lives or kill their mothers. I've yet to meet anyone who had a first-trimester abortion and felt anything besides a sense of relief that the ordeal was over. Adoption is a better option? Uh, tell that to the 400,000+ kids already in foster care who haven't been adopted and aren't likely to be because they're no longer tiny little newborns. Maybe OP's kid would get adopted, but it's also likely it would just wind up in an already overburdened system where it's not likely to get adequate care and attention. This is just my personal opinion, but to me, ditching a kid and leaving it at the mercy of the system is far more immoral than removing a nonsentient clump of cells. If OP wants to and is up to the task of having a baby, good for her. If not, she shouldn't be made to feel bad about pursuing fully legal options that will keep her from making a mistake she won't be able to forget for at least 18 years.

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