Priorities

By ill - 02/10/2009 17:18 - Canada

Today, I called my dad to ask why my university tuition had not been paid. He said that my school was "too expensive" and he "couldn't afford it." He then asked me if I would take in his mail while he was away. He was taking his new wife to Hawaii; apparently it's beautiful this time of year. FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 608
You deserved it 3 620

Same thing different taste

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Shrirke 0

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. It's the same argument every two posts! Do you REALLY THINK that it's SO EASY to pay for college yourself, in THIS economy? Are you REALLY?! THAT?! SLOW?! In regards to the earlier comment about college isn't for everyone, damn straight - it's not for people who think it's so easy to do things totally by yourself! Does that make you a moocher? No! You have to find a BALANCE - which sometimes includes your parents helping you out with college. If you're one of the lucky few who found a decent job in this economy, well Effing good for you - go brag about it to someone who gives a damn...or else quit and give it to someone decent enough to deserve it. As for the OP - Damn...that DOES suck. When you find a way out of this (WHEN, not IF, because anyone who cares this much about college definitely has what it takes to make it), move on, and don't look back at him, and when he blows all his money on his new wife, let 'em starve. Good luck.

expen_dable 0

you are a moron. The OP isn't being selfish just because his dad was paying the tuition bill and then decided not to. its already october, so wtf is the OP going to do now for money? he might even get kicked out of college. his dad screwed him over. college tuition isn't "tee hee okay daddy i'll get a part time job at starbucks to pay my tuition!" no kid, it doesn't work that way. I really hate when high schoolers try to give advice to older people when they have no clue what they're talking about.

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not everyone qualifies for osap you know. if your parents make over a certain amount, they won't give it to you

Yea, Canadian colleges arent thousands of dollars because our government pays for a very large chunk

In Panama you can go to college for about $50 a year O_o :P

Let me know when he gets here, I'll come over and say hi!

manmoosewaffel 0

Because god forbid you would have to pay for it yourself. spoiled arse o_0

FYL. My dad pulls the same crap with me. Not to this extent, not by any means. But still, its frustrating as hell, I'm sorry. :( I really hope everything works out for you in the end. Good luck to you!

Dump his mail in the trash and tell him that the envelopes thought the dumpster was beautiful at that time of year.

manmoosewaffel 0

your an idiot. part of being an adult means you pay for your own shit. quit bitchin, and how is destroying his fathers property gonna do anything. your prolly just as spooiled as him. its time to grow up and stop depending on daddy. your both spoiled shitheads

To be fair, if the OP is at a private university, than his tuition is probably quite a bit mire expensive than that vacation. So technically, his father could be able to afford the vacation but not the tuition. It still sends the wrong message though.

RikaJ 0

Out of curiosity, would reactions be different if this vacation with his new wife were a honeymoon?

Even if op goes to public uni, a Hawaiian trip is like the cost of 3 courses.