you deserved it for snooping arond

if the OP was worried about her boyfriend cheating on her, then there's no trust. maybe he did something before to break her trust, or she went into the relationship knowing he wasn't trustworthy. if she trusted him she wouldn't have read the message, and since she doesn't trust him they shouldn't be together anyway... still, its not cool that she went into his facebook. if he was planning on cheating he wouldn't tell her what his password is cos then she would've found out. so she probably went in without his permission.. invasion of privacy

guys that's why u don't give ur gf ur pass

don't be sneaking in your boyfriends personal stuff. you crossed the line and you deserved what you found YDI

seriously who the hell wouldn't read it? it's your boyfriend/girlfriends profile they get a message from a some girl Or guy your forced to read it I mean if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be... haha FYL

OP, I'm all for you. I used to change my boyfriends statuses a lot. Then every time I was on his account, his message bubble would have more and more numbers. Eventually I found out that cyber-cheating AND physically cheating was about to take place. You should be happy you found out this way and not when he actually cheats on you.

if you have nothing to hide you shouldn't worry about occasional snooping. The fact that op found something proves she was right.

Some of uall need to chill. She didnt go on his account thinkin..hmm i am gonna go through all his stuff! She was jut gonna set his status. He is the jerk

If it was the other way around and the boy found a message than it would be okay and she would be trashy

I get that snooping is bad, but do you honestly believe that she deserves to be betrayed by her boyfriend AND friend over something so small?