Run! I can't stress this enough: run, run, run. That's how most domestic violence stories start. And if it's not going to be this bad you'll still be isolated, won't have your own life anymore and he'll be constantly arguing about whatever you do. RUN!

Isolation is an abusive tactic. Even when framed as gender-based (which is asinine anyway). He's cutting you off from friends, work contacts, people that you've interacted with only tangentially, etc. to satisfy his own jealousy and reduce the number of people you could reach out to if you need to. There is nothing to do here except leave.

What??!! What about other male figures you might meet throughout your daily activities? Cashiers, Uber drivers, postman, contractors, doctors, police?? Are you allowed to have a job? Even if team and management has males? What about meeting up with female friends? If any of those is a yes, please reconsider the marriage and hopefully you get out with annulment. I wish you luck!

run away *now* before he starts looking you in the apartment/house

First? Because he expected to be others? And what was his? Anyhoo nobody cares, cause I truly hope you followed the advice everybody gave you: run and get an annulment. Wishing you the best. And one last thing: he won’t be different from the other guys.

No way, I would cancel the wedding immediately. Where's the trust?

Plot twist: OP is a literal "Ho" and this is her phone and social media for her clients. She knew that her husband plans to fully support her and she agreed to stop hoeing if he married her.

This red flag is so big it can be seen from the international space station.

OP, please, tell me that the only thing you actually sent, are the signed annulment papers. Because a marriage like this is something you definitely do not want.

Warning Signs You are being Abused: * Does your boyfriend/significant other/husband act in ways that scare you? * Does he act jealous * Does he act possessive? * Does he try to control where you go? * Does he try to control who you see? * Does he need to know where you are at all times? * Does he check your email? * Does he check your phone messages? * Does he check your texts? * Does he tell you what to wear? * Does he make you change your clothes if he doesn’t like what you have on? * Does he call you excessively? * Does he text you excessively? * Does he insist you answer his calls within a specific timeframe? * Does he sh0v3 you? * Does he h1t you? * Does he k1ck you? * Does he blame you for the hurtful things he says? * Does he blame you for the hurtful things he does?