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By Bribri - 06/09/2024 20:00 - Canada - Calgary

Today, I got mad at my boyfriend and gave him the silent treatment. He still hasn’t noticed. It’s been four hours, and he just asked if I wanted to order pizza, assuming I was "thinking really hard about something." FML
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he noticed. he's just enjoying the silence while you play your immature games

Nothing much dumber than “the silent treatment”. If you have something to say, just say it. Don’t expect people to read your mind.

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How’s that stupidity working for you?

Nothing much dumber than “the silent treatment”. If you have something to say, just say it. Don’t expect people to read your mind.

he noticed. he's just enjoying the silence while you play your immature games

I tell my team at work, "I don't have to like what I hear, but I do have to hear it." I follow that up with, I can't help fix something if I don't know it's broken. If you are having a problem with something he did, didn't do, said or didn't say, then you need to be a big person and say something. As a giy, I will gladly coast along thinking nothing is wrong. Where childish behavior like the silent treatment will get you is kicked to thw curb. It will cause you to hold in your thoughts and emotions which are very real and need to be heard and addressed. then you will explode at him and you will break up over something that could have ... and should have been fixed ages ago if you just said something.

Here's a tip if you want your relationships to work: Don't play stupid games. Just communicate.

I'll bet you're also the kind of person who believes that women are better at communicating. If you don't want to talk to him, he's not a mind reader, he'll never know what's wrong.