FYL x100million However, why didn't the girl know she wasn't supposed to cut up your wedding dress? Maybe you can buy a off-the-rack dress in your size... They have some good ones out there! At least your still getting married :)

**** #117 beating kids is NOT the answer!

And it's not slutty to have a kid with someone who isn't going to leave you. They're getting married!!! congrats, btw.

@#68 dammnn! I'm on an effin iPhone for damn sake! we all make mistakes retard!

Filling in your own preferences and values for someone else is immature.

and that's why you should have the children after marriage

Yeah, okay. Not saying all parents should be like me. However, I've woken up at the slightest noise my kids have made since I had them. If they wake up, I wake up. Perhaps I'm just too paranoid, but I see nothing wrong with it as it kinda ensures nothing like this happens. I'd have been more relieved and grateful my child was OK then even worrying about my dress, I think. Just the thought makes me scared. Not saying it's shitty about your dress, I think that's important, but not nearly on a scale of what could have happened.

How about getting married first, then maybe having kids?

Can I also add, wouldn't the first thing you do when you wake up is go check on your kid rather than picking out an outfit?

Perhaps this is a good moment to plumb her emotions about your impending marriage? (hopefully to her father?)