That's what happened when you have sex before marriage! YDI

well this kinda seems unrealistic.. your wedding dress of all things. although i cant understand why people are criticising you for having a child or that you're getting married tomorrow. i was just thinking.. wouldn't you be a tad more worried about your daughter than about the dress? :S good luck

My only question is why the hell was your two year old playing with scissors!? What kind of parent are you? Children shouldn't play with scissors unsupervised, especially when they're only two years old. Another question that comes to mind is why the hell wasn't she in a crib, or why weren't you awake with her? You shouldn't be asleep in your bed after she's already awake. Do you know how easy it would be for her to choke on something or cut her fingers off with those scissors you're letting her play with??

why weren't u watching your daughter???sleeping while she went for scissors that obviously weren't safety scissors if they cut thru a dress.. jeez that's more than fml

thats what you get for having kids before marriage and leaving a sharp objects next to a 2 year old

Ok, one: welecome to the 21st Century, we no longer live in the 1950's! Atleast, even if this is her first marridge, she and her lover are taking responsibility. Who the Hell says you can decide what is accepable for people to do? To the OP- Sorry about your dress, I'm sure your Husband would understand and many years from now you will look back and laugh. Good luck with your family!

fake!

You aren't a nerd and an athelete because a nerd knows it's athlete ^^ seig heil, grammar nazi'd. but I am 2 of the 3, a nerd and an athlete.

Mercy, which do YOU think? Troll with chicks or without chicks?

Most of these comments seem to fall in to a few categories: - religious cranks that go on about having a child out of wedlock, while ignoring the fact the same issue could very easily happen if it had been some other item within a marriage (only half appear to be catholic however, given the knee-jerk reaction to the child potentially being from a first marriage). - folks that have only read about children on the internet and express incredulity at the fact a child has its own mind, can get around on its own, etc. - folks that believe children of any age should be kept under lock and key in a sterilized environment until they're old enough to move out and start voting republican. If you have never had children of your own to take care of, then kindly do everyone a favour and refrain from commenting. Likewise for all of the people that jump in with a "terrible mother" comment, who either are simply telling themselves that this will never happen if and when they have children, or have children that are so ridiculously controlled that they'll grow up resenting them for it when they're older and looking back on their own childhood. Has it not occurred to anyone that the days before a wedding also tend to be quite hectic? Many people coming in and out, rushing about, etc. Even if the house had been baby-proofed, is it really that much of a stretch to imagine that something was left accessible in the commotion that simply slipped the mind, or went unnoticed? And even if not, children will still get in to things that they are not supposed to time and time again. The real FYL here seems to apply to most of these comments from people either too judgmental or unbalanced to form a rational or even semi-coherent response to the OP's dilemma based on the information provided.