#56, There is no place in Alaska where the sun only shines 2 days a year. Generally speaking, in Alaska the sun shines (close to) 24 hours a day for about 6 months of the year, and it's dark for (close to) 24 hours a day for the other 6 months.

Clearly you must be joking. A royal cut ass should be the order of the day

Um, yeah... you must not have kids. You'll be lucky as **** if you don't hear me scream in a day. They drive you bat shit crazy sometimes.

no i am not joking, i just don't see the point of harshly punishing the kid when all she did was attempt to get her parents to stop fighting 24/7 not that i condone her charging her fathers credit card for a website membership. now that i think about it, how did she get a hold of a activated credit card in the first place? surely your husband doesn't leave his wallet laying about or does he

@80 i don't think you get it. it isn't the membership that was the problem. The problem is that she bought the membership as a "prank", nearly ended her parent's marriage, and showed no remorse for her actions. Kid or no, this person is either a sociopath or is lying to cover for dad.

this is a kid we're talking about, this isn't sociopath behavior! its the behavior of a desperate little girl trying to send a message to her parent's: stop fighting and cut the tension in my life what she did wasn't good but like i said i understand where she's coming from, how would you like it if your home life was filled with tension and stress because your parent's couldn't stop fighting for 5 minutes and give you a little peace? you wouldn't like it at all, neither does this kid and i don't blame her for wanting a non tension filled upbringing

Your totally not understanding what happened here, the girl caused all the fighting with her actions. The parents were only fighting because of what she did. If your fully understanding what happened here and you still think your suggestion will work, then you need to have some kids of your own and let me know how that works out for you. lol

Yeah, Moon_dreamer I'm thinking you missed the point, so let's try work ding this another way. "My marriage was fine, and then I found out my husband was cheating on me. It took three weeks of us fighting before my daughter fessed up that she planted the evidence of his affair as a prank." Still think she was justified in setting up her dad?

Ok apparently you have no clue about sociopathic behaviors. I agree with everyone else here about something being fishy, but if the kid did do this as a "prank" she is a sociopath. Sociopaths have no regard for anyone but themselves. Yes there might have been problems in the OP's marriage beforehand but you have just given the kid the ok to go ahead and do it because their home life sucks..

You're an idiot. While parents shouldn't fight in front of their kids it happens and they get over it. Most kids when they wan attention act out in school or hurt themselves. She didn't do this for a bit of attention, she did it with malicious intent. And it's easy to get your parents credit card, when you're at home do you lock all your credit cards in a safe? All she had to do was go into their room or get the card out of the wallet if it was left on the table. It's obvious you don't have kids or even remember being a kid because you have a holier than thou attitude.

I don't think you understand what's going on here, the daughter's prank is what caused the fighting in the first place. Plus, it's almost impossible for parents not to argue in front of the kids; my parents argue in front of my brothers and I a lot, even if they don't, we can still hear them. The best the parents can do most of the time is to explain that just they argue doesn't mean they don't love each other. I do agree they need family counseling though, I highly doubt that the daughter is some sort of sociopath, there would be other signs. I think there's much deeper issues with the daughter that led her to do this. She needs to be punished but she also needs help and to learn how to deal with these issues in a more constructive manner so she doesn't do something like this again. OP and her husband probably need counseling too, there might be underlying trust issues which caused this incident to escalate more than it should have.

*just because they argue

They credit card bill is enough evidence for me to get pretty damn suspicious. Not only that but they could have been having problems before hand and that "prank" made it 100 times worse.

#64, I see some real heartache in store for you. I'm all about giving your partner the benefit of the doubt, but cheaters LIE. They aren't going to just come out and say, "oh. Yup I cheated.". An account profile filled out for your spouse and a credit card bill showing charges paying for the website is PRETTY DAMNING EVIDENCE. If that isn't enough to make you suspicious, then I wish you all the luck in the world.

Yeah because cheaters are just going to come right out and say "honey I'm cheating on you, I didn't tell you before you caught me, but since you did I'll confess to everything"