The big con

By JustOutofCollegeAndBroke - 16/07/2015 06:56 - United States - Los Angeles

Today, I agreed to help out with my boyfriend's sister's baby shower. They forgot to inform me that "helping" meant splitting the cost of everything. I now owe his family $275. I don't know how to back out without looking cheap. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Murilirum 23

It's not looking cheap if you didn't know it meant paying money. $275 is a fair chunk of change and not something you should just give out because someone else says you should. Also, why is a baby-shower requiring a collective acquiring of $275 per person?!

Just speak with the sister and explain that you misunderstood, and if you can't afford it explain why.

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That's a very expensive baby shower.. If it was done at home...

Don't be a chump! You own them nothing. I hate when people do that you festive activity not mine, don't give a penny. The nerve of some people.

Definitely not your responsibility whatsoever. Stand up for yourself.

also I really like how the post below this one had comments disabled

You need to stand up for yourself and forget about looking cheap. If someone did that to me I wouldn't give a ****, that's too much money that you didn't sign up for intentionally.

I don't care how I'd look or sound, I would just straight up say no

You aren't family, you don't have to pay for anything.

Don´t pay! Your boyfriend should have said them that you don´t have to pay!