By Anonymous - 13/10/2013 16:20 - United States - Bessemer

Today, after holing myself up in my room for the day, I eventually turned my phone back on and told my girlfriend that my grandma passed away today. She replied, "Ask me if I fucking care," then accused me of not caring about our relationship because I went offline all day. FML
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AznShadowWc 9

If she can't respect your family, dump her ass

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perdix 29

OP, you're a douche for lying to your girlfriend about your grandma dying. You should have told your girlfriend you wanted some alone time, and not given the Grim Reaper any ideas about your poor mee-maw!

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toalysium 15

That's what I'm wondering also. He doesn't say his grandma actually died, just that he told his GF that. She's still kinda cunty, but maybe it was karma.

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novapine 19

that's not the kind of girlfriend you need to stay with.

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Metalkitty 15

Dude, that's so ******* rude. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. You don't deserve it after what had happened.

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captainmpg 9

Sorry, I agree with the girlfriend. If my significant other didn't tell me, locked themselves up all day and ignored me -probably causing me to worry immensely about them...I'd probably be angry too. The comment is made out of anger, so I can understand it... It was a very disrespectful thing he did to her.

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phoneYuNOlisten 16

No it isn't. Family before friends, ******.

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love_me_electric 20

HE was disrespectful to HER? Are you sure you don't have that backwards?

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musiciangirl591 16

um... again what 61 said, family before friends (or SOs), you really need to get your priorities straight...

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Quiet_one 22

No, the girlfriend was the only disrespectful one here no matter how you look at it. If she was mad because she'd been worried about him, she would have said so. Instead, she said "Ask me if I ******* care," which roughly translates to "I don't care what happened or how you're feeling, it's all about ME." There is no right or wrong way to grieve, but there is most definitely a wrong way to treat someone who is grieving. OP's (ex?)girlfriend is a master at it.

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captainmpg 9

Let's hope you never get in a serious relationship then, ******.

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Metalkitty 15

You two might be perfect for eachother, then.

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siggy_mcsigx 22

Erm, if my boyfriend did not contact me for most of the day, even if I was worried about it, if he told me someone died and that's why he was being a recluse I would immediately forgive him and support him. Besides, I know his grandma well and would be devastated also. So what if I was mildly inconvenienced for a few hours? There is no way this girlfriend is in the right here.

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ViviMage 39

Open communication matters. And neither side was good at it here.

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diaspora_fml 26

The world does not have the immense quantity of douche necessary to wash away such an extreme degree of narcissism.

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pazuzus_intern 10

Um no, respect does not mean OP has to be at her beck and call all the time regardless of the circumstances. Even if it did she clearly has no respect for OP, so why should he owe her anything.

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Gangsterrface 10

What a bitch . You're better off without her. People like her shouldn't exist .

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phoneYuNOlisten 16

Leave her. If she doesn't care about you, then you shouldn't care about her. edit: Sorry for your loss OP.

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k84765 3

if a partner can't be supportive or empathetic that's huge red flag of what's to come dump her

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Flashman9000 9

Good job you found out what a bitch she is before things got serious.

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