That was a really great way of putting it. Your seemingly respectful way of putting the facts out there made me happy....plus it kinda reminded me of Spidey so that like +30 points for you : )

you're the shit too. I like your good luck you added.

I agree with the rest of your advice, but big is NOT beautiful. That's just a slogan fat people made up so they can stay in denial. The sooner op faces the ugly truth, the sooner he can take the initiative to improve himself!

Big is beautiful when it comes to proper proportions. Someone who is a healthy size 10 can be just as lovely as someone who is a healthy size 3. If you're taking someone who obviously doesn't take good care of his/her self, that's when you find the ugliness. Be the person too thin due to lack of nutrition, too muscular due to over-exercising, or too large due to lack of a proper lifestyle, it's just not pretty to be unhealthy by your own hand.

Just because someone is the ideal weight doesn't mean they are taking good care of themselves. It just means people will notice it less. A person who is the perfect weight for the height and body frame can still have ludicrously bad cholesterol and such. I just wanted to point that out because you are talking as though only the obvious things (overweight, underweight, too muscular) mean that a person isn't taking proper care of themselves.

I said healthy. I assumed that underlined taking proper care of one's self enough to not be facing problems linked with not.

I think you're just fat and pissed that you can't be skinny. that's always the case with people who hate anyone thinner than them. you get pissed at people for tagging on the overweight, then turn around and do the same thing to skinny people. you're such a hypocrite.