By lastinclass - 13/07/2016 21:28 - Canada - Vancouver

Today at camp, we were choosing teams for capture the flag. It's embarrassing to be chosen last, but today I learnt it's even more embarrassing to not be chosen at all. FML
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Same thing different taste

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I believe that makes you the Free Agent who takes flags from either side and is invincible to tagging. You also have to yell "FREE AGENT, FREE AGENT" as you run around waving the captured flags. If the other players find it disruptive, perhaps they can assimilate you into one of the teams. If it's not TOO much trouble.

You probably could've said something, OP. Or perhaps there was an odd number of people and last pick would have to sit out?

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They did you wrong bruh, I'm sorry. Keep your head up.

tbh when I was in school that happened every single time there was teams. Every. Single. Time.

Yeah I don't understand why teachers still let kids pick teams. There is ALWAYS a person left last - a 'loser', no winner. You'd think they'd have realised by now that team picking is a cruel and unnecessary thing.

sorry I didn't mean to press YDI..it's not nice that you didn't get chosen, I'd have asked why or : hey which team am I on than? you really should speak up for yourself, maybe the others thought you didn't want to participate..and usually when the last one is chosen, you're in the opposite team, automatically..

Atleast you didn't choose team instinct.

It's "chosen" last. Not "chose". Be more embarrassed with your poor grammar.

It was mean that you didn't get chosen on either team this time. But if it happens again, it's pretty clear that some kids (not all) have something against you. But things could be worse. Kids might haze you or bully you at camp. Plus, capture the flag is an activity but not a sport. Hopefully when the next activity is a sport and you're needed, they will choose you on a team. Don't feel embarrassed at all. You got to sit this one out and not worry about getting injured out there.

Exclusion from activities is considered bullying/hazing in the rules of pretty much every half decent foundation. Also, if they didn't choose OP for an 'activity' that involves vey sport like rules and movements, they aren't going to choose them for a 'sport.' Overall, the counsellors need to get off their ass and do their job instead of turning a blind eye to bullying, before it escalates. (And this sort of bullying? ALWAYS escalates. Next it will be OP can't find anywhere to sit for lunch or people taking their stuff. I've seen it happen a lot.)

So because OP got excluded one(1) time, you are guaranteeing that he will be excluded for any and every activity while he is at camp and the bullying "will" escalate because you've seen it a lot of times? Instead of assuring OP that things will get worse at camp you should try to be positive and give him some advice on how to deal with the situation and hope that he doesn't get hazed or bullied.

Ah, frank, at it again with the 'oh maybe things aren't that bad' perspective. Look, I'll argue for the sake of arguing more than anyone, but this is a clear case of exclusion and while it doesn't technically count as bullying if it only has happened once(1), it's still nasty and hurtful and yes - if there are no consequences for the other kids' behaviour it may very well happen again. This isn't like some lottery ticket where it's like 'aww, better luck next time', these are kids deliberately excluding one kid and heck while they may have their reasons (maybe OP's an asshole? <-- that's a route the devil's advocate could have taken), things aren't just going to 'get better' if you 'think positive'. Someone (a camp counsellor??) needs to explain to those kids that what they did was hurtful and if there is some animosity and/or justification for the exclusion, sort it out productively.

Yeah. I hope this incident doesn't get worse or escalate to bullying. And I hope that OP isn't an asshole. But from my experience growing up, the kids who are assholes don't get left out, usually they're the ones picking on kids and giving almost everyone a hard time. The positive perspective is just wishful thinking towards OP and anyone who feels hurt or not wanted. I hope things only get better for OP while at camp and that no kid gets left out or bullied. But that's like wishing for world peace.

Basically my entire high school experience.