By HappyBirthdayISuppose - 01/04/2013 05:03 - United States - Westminster

Today, for my birthday, the only "gift" my parents gave me was the gift of choice: I got to choose which one of them I'll be living with after their upcoming divorce. This was the first time I'd heard anything about a divorce. FML
I agree, your life sucks 40 109
You deserved it 2 375

Same thing different taste

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saucyrossi 18

Things like this are never easy... Keep your head up!

That doesn't seem fair at all! Sorry op. they should have warned you and gave you time. But to tell you on your birthday was not the best choice.

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I hope for your sake it's an April fools joke.

I want to wish you a happy birthday, but it feels kind of lame to say that considering the sucker punch your parents delivered as a present. Stay strong!

hiandrews69 29

Divorce sucks... Especially when it comes to money. That might be why neither of the two bought you anything... Saving up money for the divorce. However, they still should have made the day fun for you by going and doing something cheap, but meaningful. Hopethe road ahead isn't too rocky, op.

Hello OP, I hope you read this, as it happened to me as well. My parents ended up staying together, the lengthy divorce process turned out to be worse than splitting up their stuff, and they are happier now than before. For my family it worked out, but I carry a sadness in my heart from the time when things were at rock bottom. The only way to get through this is by focusing on your own life, study hard, get out on your own when you're ready to take care of yourself and your own life. I know this is tough, but you're the only person who will put your best interest first right now. Maybe someday they'll put you first, but for now take care of yourself and trust your best judgement. Best wishes on your birthday, Alex

They could have waited till after your birthday to tell you this.... But, from me happy birthday! I know divorce sucks, as i think my parents might be going to get one, but stay strong! x

Happy birthday OP! And tell them you choose to live with an aunt until they decide to behave and deal with life like adults.

ashleymendoza24 4

Are you sure it wasn't an attempt of an April Fools Joke? But Happy Birthday otherwise!

PhishloverA 14

Maybe it's just an April fools joke. Happy birthday

Megan639 16

You're life is about to start sucking. Sorry but no one should sugarcoat it for you. Divorce is mean and sad.