By Anonymous - 25/06/2009 22:24 - United States

Today, I brought a friend who I have loved for years out to a nice restaurant for dinner. I ordered an expensive bottle of wine, and poured each of us a glass. As I was about to tell her I loved her, she raised her glass for a toast and said "A toast to friendship!" FML
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HeyitsPheddy 0

She probably knows you like her and doesn't like you back. So, instead of being a bitch and rejecting you, she kept you as a friend. It definitely could have been worse, buddy.

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bexox 0

I love how every one bitches about rejection. What is someone supposed to do if they're not attracted to you? Say yes and pity date you? Get into a relationship so you dont get your feelings hurt and inevitably treat you like shit? Yeah it sucks, but I hate peoples' attitude about it.

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SirAlan 0

i think she already knows u like her and so she sed it b4 it got awkward!!!

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Brittanii 0

dangg... she reallii aintt. feelinn u likk thtt.

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doriusrex 0

man, when that happens you have to just put your glass down before she clinks it, look her dead in the eye, and just say it. just say it. better to be awkward and in the open than depressing and locked away.

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Failurewithacapi 0

Hey, that's almost what happened to me, but hey "Every no is a yes waiting for tomarrow" And it could be the girl is not into relationships right now, like the girl I like.

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Failurewithacapi 0

Um,#63, that's not the case with every girl, duh, it depends if they are, Dumb- badboy Average- in between Smart- good person That's how I notice it as, in my town.

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Baby_Baby_BABY 0

hehehe....not into relationships now. Ie until somebody comes along who she IS into!

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_THE_MASTER_ 0

sure...'not into relationships' that just means she's not entertaining the idea of being in a relationship WITH YOU. don't mean to be harsh or anything, but thats the truth. someday, maybe in a week or in a month or in a year... she's gonna introduce some douchebag to you as her bf.

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nowhere90 0

The "friend zone" is totally a girl thing. I have doubts on girls & boys friendships, because there's always someone who "loves" the other one better. Experience has taught me that you have to start flirting with the girl the sooner the better, just to show that your intentions are more then friendship. Act like a dick won't make things metter. A love declaration after years of friendship isn't the best thing to do...

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QueenOfMelodrama 0

When telling a friend you like them, you shouldn't make a big deal out of it like that, because that makes it more awkward if it comes to a rejection. That should be saved for the celebration if the feelings are returned. Just sit her down and tell her how you feel, and that you just wanted her to know, but also that her friendship is important to you and you don't want to make things weird because of how you feel if the feelings aren't mutual. Unless of course, you're okay with ruining a great friendship over it. But if you do something extravagant like that to tell her, then she'll feel weird hanging out alone with you from then on, thinking you may try something like that again. You just need to sit down and have a long talk, in a PRIVATE place. Something casual, so she doesn't feel pressured, so she can feel comfortable. The conversation is probably awkward enough. You don't need to add an awkward situation as well. Just tell her while hanging out. Don't make it feel like a date.

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lifecanbegood 0

I'm always amazed how complicated people make relationships seem. Lots of really big comments here. State control is key in any kind of relationship. Anticipate the result you want, and you will get far. It's sort of like the Pygmalion effect. Enjoy!

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