By notcool - 15/12/2009 21:49 - United States

Today, I called my boyfriend upset because my best friend has begun stripping to pay for school. His response was, "Where and what time does she work?" FML
I agree, your life sucks 35 521
You deserved it 8 860

Same thing different taste

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He is concerned and wondering where he can find her... and find a show... and support her education.

xXmoses_rocksXx 0

That's messed up. Sorry to hear your boyfriend is a complete horndog. I hope your friend comes to her senses as well. Good luck

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What the hell is wrong with that? It's her body, and all things considered it's really not a bad way to get some funds, especially when paying for something so expensive -- either you get it where you can, or you're stuck with loans and interest for the next twenty years. At least she's not robbing banks or dealing drugs. Stripping isn't even prostitution. If I thought convents had computers, I'd be firmly convinced you were posting this from one. But all that aside, your boyfriend's no keeper. FYL. And if you have any dignity at all, you'll drop him for even saying something like that. Some guys just exist to give life to the stereotype that "men only want one thing". Is it even considered a stereotype if it's actually true in about 75% of males aged 15-30?

@12. yeah men are such assholes with their absolutely normal sexual instincts. oh and half the time guys say stuff like that, they r joking, which the OP's boyfriend obviously was. however first paragraph of comment agreed.

why is he not a keeper? I'm a girl, straight, and that would have been my first response, too. I cocktail waitress at a strip club, and my BF comes in occasionally with our mutual friends and I buy him lapdances from the girls I like (because he won't tell me which ones he likes for some reason :) ) OP, open your mind. your friend is showing the same thing for money that woman get drunk and show at the bar for free, what's the big deal? your boyfriend responded in a way that 90% of guys (100% if they are guys like the ones I know) would have. get over it. or leave him and stop talking to her because you are a closed-minded, self-centered prude. they are prolly better off without you :)

#12 Funny how you can be so hypocritical in how fakely open minded you are on the first half of your comment, and yet totally prudishly conservative in the second half.

theloofy 0

Why would you say something like that #12? You're one of THOSE women aren't you. Ya know, the ones that can't find a man because they feel he doesn't DESERVE you or he's not GOOD enough.

Honey it's a recession. At least your bf is helping to support her education since you clearly are not. Think for yourselfer

zbrown 6

He was probably trying to cheer you up with a joke. I don't think he was serious.

sdcrazy1018 0

twas my inital thought that it was a joke

Sadly, it's one of the only ways to actually make some decent money these days. 8(

Well your boyfriend is an ass but you really shouldn't judge your friend. It's not like she's a prostitute and stripping is a good way to make money. School is expensive. It's her body why should you care.

As long as her employer is reputable and trustworthy and doesn't force her into sexual acts for the clients, and as long as the job isn't causing her issues with body image or self-esteem, why should you have a problem with it? Sure, it's not a waitressing job or anything (and certainly not a job I would ever apply for), but as long as she's happy and safe, it's her job, her body, and her life. And your boyfriend was probably joking. It sounds like something my boyfriend would say....and he and I both laugh over it later.

Even I agree that stripping is better than being a waitress. Especially these days where there's a high chance of Douchebags making the job a LOT harder for you than it should be. Everyone I've ever known to have a waitress job always suffers from stress.

unless you luck out and land a cocktail waitressing job at a strip club, where the most stressful part of it is telling guys who want you to strip for them for go F*** themselves in a nice way so they still tip you ^_^

Gotchlorine23 0

Omg, wow your boyfriend is a douchebag haha..... unless he was just kidding around. I mean my boyfriend does that a lot. So it could be just a simple humor act lmao.

dizziedanni123 0

you deserve because this isnt the kind of issue you go 2 ur BF about....what were you expecting...if it bothers you that much....talk 2 her yourself...telling a MAN about strippers isnt the way 2 go....

What were you expecting your bf to say? I'm also fairly certain he was joking.