By BellinaNico - 25/05/2013 04:40 - United States - Mcdonough

Today, I called my fiancé just to tell him how much I love him, as a sweet gesture. He yelled at me for interrupting his video game and blamed my "neediness" on the fact that I'm menstruating. FML
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Grand_Cookie 21

Sounds like a reaaaaal awesome husband-to-be...

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darwinism 30

So next time he tries to be frisky and interrupts your activities you yell at him and blame his "neediness" on the fact that he is hard. FYL.

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TVKill3r 15

Doesn't sound like one to me. Being a video gamer myself I've been interrupted plenty of times but I've NEVER felt the need to yell at the person who did so, especially my lover.

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heatcool8631 5

If a guy stops a video game to talk to you he loves you. Sorry to break the news

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FC3sInfiniIII 12

Same here, shit I hate it when my girlfriend does that crap. Yes, I love her and all but she ignores me when she is busy.. So Why should I stop my game for her. Either way, I still answer and can't focus to keep on playing my game. And she constantly getting annoying because I can't keep up with her 100 question questionnaire.

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Lonelywife85 8

Trust me OP, I thought that this gaming was a phase that my fiancé would grow out of, but after 5 years of marriage it's been made very clear what takes priority in our marriage, it isn't me, my feelings, our relationship, or his job - it's video games all the time. I love him, but I should've listened to the red flags. You will always be interrupting him, and all your fights/problems will always be your fault. It just gets worse. If you don't put your foot down on the gaming, like I should've done you'll end up with a husband who plays for 8+ hours a day and thinks that's not enough. Good luck OP

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Fedezzer 20

If she forces him to stop, he'll be miserable for the rest of the marriage and blame THAT on her as well.

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Alicestraza 33

Never assume that a partners faults are a 'phase they'll grow out of'. I'll never understand people who have a problem with their partner and just brush it under a rug and hope it'll go away. Don't try and stop your partner from enjoying their hobby, learn to live with it or leave. If you talk about it and they still won't change, leave.

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kimbo1005 1

Just saying....get out now while you still can.

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bballer4life895 13

You should know better lol :P

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GRgoldfish 19

I agree with number 13, if your fiance can learn to control his anger, then you two should get married. but this can only work if he is willing to change. good luck op

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ceege 3

Honestly, I don't understand why everyone on here is telling you to break up with him over this. I'm a woman, and have a lot of guy friends and have had guy room mates, and most guys don't like to talk on the phone, for one. I know you would of not known that he was busy playing video games when you called, but it does actually sound pretty needy to call him up just to tell him you love him. He obviously already knows, and he obviously loves you too, or he would of not asked you to marry him. Now your next step should be to do nothing and just ignore him for a bit and get busy doing other things. Let him call you. Also, remember if you can't beat 'em, join them. Play video games with your man. He'll love you for it! Good Luck!:)

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ukulellen 2

Spot on, ceege. Yes, it's sweet to call and say you love your partner, and yes, his reaction was kinda rude, and clearly hurtful to OP. But it's less about blame, and more about knowing what behaviours bring out the best in each other. Some people thrive on frequent interaction and affection, others need time alone. No, it's never cool to be impolite, but maybe the boyfriend just needs some time to be alone, and feels trapped when that time is interrupted, which makes him lash out.

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Alicestraza 33

She should only start playing video games (if she doesn't already) if he agrees to take up a hobby that she enjoys. Sorry I just hate the advice that a girl should join her partner in gaming to 'make him happy' without the partner also doing something they normally wouldn't. It also implies that she doesn't already play games, we don't know if she does or not.

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Fedezzer 20

What makes it entirely the guy's responsibility to make the relationship work? He probably puts up with loads of her odd quirks, neediness being one of them, in his opinion. Jeez people, lay off him.

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Fedezzer 20

This was 'thumbed' positive, then I change my pic and come back to find it's gone to minuses?

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