By Anonymous - 13/04/2011 10:19 - Australia

Today, I came out to my parents. They nodded empathetically throughout my entire speech and told me repeatedly that it was okay. As I smiled and stood up, my dad asked, "But you're still going to marry a guy, right?" FML
I agree, your life sucks 43 545
You deserved it 8 125

Same thing different taste

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oz2sd 0

congratulations, that was a big step.

Babushka_Homyak 10

No worries, OP. Your dad will realize you're serious when you start bringing girls home. Happy hunting!

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rallets 22

tumbleweeds and crickets as far as the eye can see

MegamiKaosu 28

they probably think you're in a phase(((as mentioned before))) but really it's them, he'll come around depending on how stubborn he will determine the time

ilikeemsmall 4

Many parents haven't even considered the possibility that their kid might be gay or could end up in jail or may end up becoming mentally ill. It always happens to someone else. I knew when I had kids that all these things are possible. Your dad will get used to it eventually.

And the ultimate shutdown response for that would have been "Maybe.... after the sex change" and leave it at that. ;-)

It'd be like that couple in Casualty! (a UK drama for anyone wondering)

TaylorTotsYumm 10

Almost the same thing happened to me. The only difference is that after I came out to them, my mom keeps asking me over and over if i'm reeeeaaaally sure I wouldn't want to marry a guy instead.

YDI :) I mean I got no problem with it, but your parents want grandchildren!!!!!!! just marry a guy, they're better :D

Pretty_Pink_Lady 10

I'm assuming you are a strait girl (as am I). If it was socially acceptable for you to date/marry other women, but you were only attracted to men, you wouldn't be to happy to be with a girl your whole life, would you? You can't just tell someone to ignore their sexual orientation.

Okay, the only reason I can figure you're saying this is probably cause you're young... right??? You do know gay people, especially lesbians, can have children

yeah they can have children but they aren't their own...if it wasn't wrong to be **** then they would be able to have kids of their own...

Crazy4Christ 0
xDancer101x 0

that's a nasty picture u got there...

sugarjay 0

being gay is wrong in sooooo many ways. please reconsider your lifestyle.

Thats true, but some would say "if something that feels so wrong feels so good then I don't want to be right." So right/wrong/does it matter? :P

My mom still insists that it's just a phase for me too...even though it's been nine years. Of course, I'm pansexual, which many people don't believe exists but hey, that's not my problem. :) I'm currently in a relationship with a transguy and I couldn't be happier. Forget your dumbass dad and do what's good for you.

Kudos to you on dating a trans-man. Many people don't see us trans-men for who we really are. congrats to you both.

Alright, I have to ask bc google confused me. What exactly is a trans man? Is it a man born a female, or a man wanting to be a female? Thanks.

boatkicker 4

A trans man is someone who was born with a female body, and considers himself a man.

sublime420 11