If you wanted to fix your marriage, you never would have had an affair in the first place.

I was a complete asshole and now I have to face the consequences of my stupid actions. Boohoo. FML

Oh no, I did a bad thing, tired to hide it, and then that bad thing got discovered, poor me. Boo ******* hoo, you brought this on yourself. If you really wanted to work on your marriage, you wouldn't have done the thing that was basically bound to irreparably damage it. Either work on your marriage, or leave, those are your options, but don't subject your wife, or another person, to your distrustful, cowardly, secretive and emotionally hurtful bullshit.

You so deserved it.

What did you expect was going to happen, honestly XD. F HER life, not yours. Shoulda thought about the consequences before hand.

OP is terrible for cheating. But if the mistress told their wife, doesn't that mean the mistress knew they were cheating with a married person? Just saying the mistress is pretty terrible too if she knew.

I rarely select YDI, but you deserved this.

you disgust me.

If there is a button for "YDIx 100" I would have pressed it