**** all these people people telling you what you do or don't feel, or judging the choices you make with your own body. And **** your boyfriend for, at best, being a complete moron, and at worst, a complete bastard. And FYL. (TY #37)

194 is a ******* moron. Soon you'll realize how having sex at a young age does nothing but **** with your later relationships, even the non romantic ones.

well maybe you should've waited more than four months before giving it away.

good job picking a 13 year old moron

Agree with #40. I'm seriously wondering where some of these people are coming from, and how long they've been living under a rock. From the looks of it, it's kind of like this: 4 months - a **** 2 years - a loser Any time in between that - a mix of both First night - Most likely the devil. They were not looking to have a good time, they are obviously evil and both parties involved should be dragged down the street behind a moving vehicle... GROW UP PEOPLE!

#6 is the truth! #104 is beast! Saving yourself for marriage is stupid. If you haven't seen someone naked and their your lover then you faaaail. Why is virginity so special? If a women has a one night stand she isn't judged as much as someone who loses there virginity at a young age. Some people need to castrate themselves with there own teeth.

get a new boyfriend also after he did that, you should have mass texted everyone saying he had a small penis

Its not that big of a deal. When my boyfriend and I first lot our virginities to each other, we ended up doing it twice in one day. But after that, we texted some people telling what had happened. He did tell more people, but I didn't get mad at him for it.

#200 and everyone else who thinks premarital sex is bad. Stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Once you realize that love and sex do not always go hand in hand, a whole new world of awesome will open up for you. There is nothing wrong with having sex before you are married. I had sex for the first time when I was 14 after dating a girl for 2 months. I'm 19 now and so far none of my relationships have been any worse because of it. In fact, all of my relationships have been very healthy. Please don't talk about things that you obviously know nothing about, #200. #123 LOL. If you weren't being sarcastic then you're life is truly pathetic. And OP, you're not a ****. You're just dumb, that's all. I can't believe so many people on FML are such tight asses.

4 months - a **** 2 years - a loser having sex because of love - delusional Some people here have really happy and healthy perspectives on life, evidently. Every case is different. There's no set "right" amount of time to wait before having sex. You do it when the timing is right. For some people it can be years, for others, simply days. Playing by other people's rules instead of listening to your own heart, beliefs and values, you're bound to get disappointed and frustrated. To OP: I'm sorry this has happened to you and yes, this is a huge FYL. Just deal with it the best you can. Shit happens to the best of us, especially when feelings are involved.