YDI for hacking into his email.

maybe the ex-girl friend has a complex name that lends itself as a strong password like Annavatonix.

Meh, you've clearly got control/trust issues if you hack you husband's accounts to see what he's up to. He shouldn't have cheated on you, he should have dumped you for being psychotic and found a new girl. And what the hell have you been doing to give him enough time to cheat on you? Hate to say it, but you should've seen this coming. After all, it seems like your husband is the kind of guy who likes attention, and you seem to have left him with a lot of free time. Plus you both keep secrets from each other (his affairs and your hacking his account). Wake up, put 2 and 2 together, and realize your relationship was doomed anyways.

When you go lookin' you're going to find something.....

YDI All the way to your grave. .....................,--, ..................../__/ .................../.. / ................../__/ ............./´¯/'...'/´¯¯`·¸ ........../'/.../..../......./¨¯ ........('(...´...´.... ¯~/'...') ..........................'...../ ..........''............. _.·´ ..........................( He doesn't nee a noosy wife hacking him. Your lucky he didn't find out. If you confronted him I hope he divorce your ass.

YDI. How dare you invade his privacy - you probably did it because you are a psychotic bitch, which is why he cheated in the first place. What the ****. Go jump off of a bridge.

The first one def...

leave him

i don't know how many marriages you've been to, but "being monogamous" is NOT a vow in any traditional wedding. based on your reasoning, no one should ever have to be faithful because i know for a fact that it is not something you specifically state on your wedding day UNLESS you write your own vows and add that part in. it's pretty much an unwritten rule - the exception would be if you explicitly stated that cheating was allowed, but that is obviously not the case here. it actually sort of is a written rule when i think about it, considering states that don't have the "no fault" rules for divorce will automatically judge AGAINST the person who strayed if there is evidence that adultery was committed. how morbid would wedding ceremonies be if people started listing all of the dishonest things they promise not to do, which should go without saying? that is sooo not what a wedding, or a marriage, is supposed to be about

@114: your little essay is chauvinistic to say the least and downright biased. yes, looks and maintenance are essential in a relationship, but that does NOT give the husband an excuse to cheat. and who are you to automatically assume she let herself go to seed? if that was the real reason, why was her husband cheating 'with several people', and not just one in that case? It's obvious he is the one who's got issues. the password already proves that.