He probably set the password when he was going out with her and then never changed it, as for the cheating, check the dates on the emails.

kinda sad your breaking into his e-mail

Chances are she suspected he was cheating and that is why she started snooping. Is snooping right? No. But chances are if he has the guts to cheat on his wife with not one person but multiple people then he wouldn't admit to it if confronted. Chances are that he will never change and next time he will just do a better job of covering his tracks. As much as it sucks for a marriage to end it s probably for the best. Having a gut feeling someone is cheating on you brings out the biggest insecurity of having no control over your life. People will go through great depths to get answers. Common sense goes right out of the window. Chances are most people commenting on this would act the same way in her situation. Being cheated on is horrible

I feel soo bad for you. I hear ya let me say guys are bastards... but what can girls do about it. I hope you find someone better who actually appreciates you. But I can also see were you deserved it... a little too nosey on your part.

Omg he not nice devorce!

Ah, story of my early love life. ^-^ It was SO much fun breaking up with that piece of shit. Best way to get back at a man who's cheating on your like that is to kill his wallet. Good time. Good times. I hope you divorce this son of a bitch. Get him for everything he's worth!

This girl started calling my boyfriend's phone at all hours of the night and would wake me up [we live together]. One night, I looked through his phone. She asked him if he planned on staying with me or if she should just give up. Yes, snooping is wrong, but when you have reasons to be suspicious, what else are you going to do? I asked him about it and he denied it, so then I told him I looked in his phone. Yeah, he was furious I did it and I've never done it again, but he also understood why I did it. She definitely should've confronted her hubsand beforehand if she had suspicion because it definitely sounds like she was trying to get into his e-mail account for a while.

Ydi

Ok, I admit right now I don't know shit about being married. BUT, I do know that some people here seem to justify being dishonest and untrustworthy simply because the woman(it's always the woman's fault, innit?) was either getting fat, working, not in the mood etc... So, yes, obviously marriage is a 2-way thing. Both need to put in effort. If a husband is not pleased with how his wife behaves or vice versa, then they need to discuss it with eachother. If they can't and resort to cheating, then they are not mature enough to be married, plain and simple. Also, I can understand not being happy about weight-gain and whatnot, but guess what people, shit happens. We don't stay attractive forever. After about 50 or so, most of us have already lost our sex appeal and we can't always control that(genetics play a huge part in how we age, not just personal habits.) It's NOT ok to cheat or hurt your spouse because of something like that. If you can't handle the aging process, DON'T get married FFS! In the end, your husband is an asshole and no one is coming up with good excuses for it.

i think i can help you out because i do know what is worse. it is obviously worse that he is cheating on you with several people. and why were u trying so hard to break into your husbands email anyways?