By help - 05/01/2015 18:52 - Malta - Naxxar

Today, I finally got a restraining order against my violent ex. My mom now keeps finding ways to tell me how shitty I am for breaking the "poor boy's" heart and how I didn't deserve him anyway. FML
I agree, your life sucks 38 032
You deserved it 2 805

Same thing different taste

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don't let her get into your head, you're a very brave person for getting the police involved. you did the right thing no matter what she says

Don't let it get to you. What went on behind closed doors between you & him & your safety is what matters. Your mom sees things from one side & from the sounds of it he obviously made an effort to give others one impression & treat you another way

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theTAT3R 6

well... I mean, she's half right, I suppose. No one deserves somebody like that. FYL, op. Hopefully your mom comes to her senses

sounds like your mom might have been a lil to friendly with him

Omm tiegħek ovvjament għandu l-ebda rispett għalik, u inti għamilt dak li kien id-dritt għall-protezzjoni tiegħek stess.. hope you see this though

It's possible OPs mom is in denial. If she knows what OP's ex did to her then she might not be able to believe that her daughter experienced that or that ex would do those horrible things to OP. Of course, she could emotionally abusive to OP and this is a frequent occurrence, including blaming OP for trying to protect herself from the ex, I don't know.